Search Results: ready for commitment

What should a girl do if a man is not ready for a commitment with a girl but he says that he will marry her directly?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex says he wants to keep things the same just without "boyfriend/girlfriend" titles?

He broke up but wants to keep things "exactly the same" just without the boyfriend and girlfriend title commitment. Says just general life stuff, moving out of parents house, finding a higher paying job, not ready for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is it ok for men to make us wait for commitment but frustrating if we make a man wait for sex?

If we want commitment after 2-3 years in the relationship, if he's not ready yet we're suppose to be all patience, not nag him and let him take his time. All this while ignoring the fact that we have a biological clock...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is this regretful action?

I loved him really really hard. Like never before. He never spoke to me or befriended me but was a brother to my little sister. Somewhere I did move her but had a big ego to admit it. He rejected me multiple time until he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Where did the flirting go?

I’ve recently reconnected with a crush I went out with a couple of times about 9yrs ago and we have been texting a lot since last week. I messaged her on FB Sun after she posted a pic from vaca and said she looked great...

mrcool48047

Xper 5 Age: 49

Situationship Vibes?

I met this guy in 2021 and we became friends. Then we became friends with benefits and now it’s weird. I get that fwbs don’t ever evolve into something serious and I’m am confused on if this is a situationship now. (i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this “I’m not ready for a relationship” actually legitimate?

Went on a few dates with a girl. I noticed a decline in interest after the third date so we both decided to be friends for now. She had recently gotten out of a bad relationship, and said that she was still experiencing...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I ask a former situationship if she wants something casual?

So I dated this girl I used to work with for a bit. Only went on 3 dates, and we got romantic but I never even reached the level of kissing her because I was a bit spooked by the fact that we worked together. Made it...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Girl I went on a few dates with said she has genuine feelings for me, but isn’t mentally ready for a relationship?

Been on a few dates with a shy girl who only recently broke up with her abusive ex boyfriend. Yeah. I walked into this. Anyway, I noticed her interest waning over the last week and she’s not the only girl I’m seeing so I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I'm desperate to settle down. How do I not scare him off?

I'm 28 and all I want is to get married. I see my boyfriend (he's 30, we barely began dating 10 days ago, talking 2 months ago) and mainly look at the fatherhood potential, apart from everything else that I like about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How will I know if I meet the right man to marry?

I had my first boyfriend at nineteen, another boyfriend at twenty, then my ‘skanky hoe;’ years in the rest of my twenties. In my thirties, I haven’t been involved with anyone. Although I liked two men, with whom nothing...

HappyWoman34

Influencer Age: 37

Boyfriend pulls out from house purchase and wants to travel instead?

Me and him have dated for a year, lived together for 6 months. We met at a time when we were both ready to get on the property ladder and after some debating we considered buying together since we are both high income...

victoriaxoxo

Xper 7 Age: 28

Cock blockers, why do men hate on the next guy? If it didn't work with you get out the way and get over it don't pour salt to stop and block the nxt?

Why do men listen to others lies or feelings they have towards a woman versus getting to know her for themselves? There's a first time for everything, if you never give the person a chance how would you know for...

jazzyjic78

Xper 3 Age: 48

Family & Friends

I want revenge on my sister's ex boyfriend, is my hatred towards him ok?

I used to advise her against living together with a boyfriend and make him give her his last name but she didn't listen and got carried away by the romance, falling in love stage and a bunch of nonsense. She got tired of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would a guy pull away because his feelings are growing stronger, but he isn't ready for a commitment?

Seeing a guy for about 6 weeks who has expressed how much he likes me, but also told me early on he wasn't ready for a commitment. There's been some mixed messages so I'm not sure where he is coming from at this point,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex is engaged and I’m broken, how do I move on, do I move on?

It was four years ago, and so far it has been the only relationship where I have been the one to end things. I was 21 and he was 26. At the time I found him very full on and pushy, but now I look back and I see things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you say you’re easy to win over but hard to keep OR vice versa OR something else (explain)?

I start off simple. I’m pretty easy to get but hard to keep/satisfy. I’m pretty routine and when things start to change, I try to get it back to the way things were, otherwise, I’m ready to bounce. Like I start to feel...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I start off simple. I’m pretty easy to get but hard to keep/satisfy. I’m pretty routine and when things start to change, I try to get it back to the way things were, otherwise, I’m

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Seeing a guy with mixed signals - what do these mean and what would you do?

I've been seeing a guy (im crazy about) for a month - we have a very strong connection and very strong chemistry. A couple weeks ago he mentioned he wasn't yet ready for a commitment and wanted to see where things go, to...

Eliza12345

Xper 4 Age: 36