Why does the guy I am dating keep asking if or implying I am on dates?

[Eliza12345]

We are dating casually for about just over a month. A couple weeks ago he wanted to clarify he wasn't ready for a commitment and didn't want to be exclusive, so I should feel free to go on dates, he doesn't care. But now, every time I say I'm busy, or not home, he'll say "oooo how is the date going?" "oh you're busy Friday, you have a date? Good for you" or "How's the date, is it going well? it's cool I don't care" - it happens every time I am not available. I have no idea how to respond or where this is coming from?

[Anonymous]

He’s just probing, getting an idea of how much time left he has access to you. I’m not sure if this question was just out of curiosity or if you’re wondering if he’s having a change of heart, but if it’s the 2nd option then my advice is to please start processing and making peace with what he wants. That way you’re not hanging on hoping for change that’ll never come. if you’re wanting to date and work towards something with a man, at least find one where you know from the start you’re both on the same page. Entertaining this man any longer is dead-ended outside of casual sex and he’s told you as much.

[laly520]

dont get why even keep seeing him

he doesn't know what he wants

[Billlewis]

Because we're absolutely fascinated with the sex you're having with the other guys you're dating.

[bowenw]

It sounds like he wants you all to himself, yet still be able to date other people himself.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[spartan55]

Casual relationships are great aren't they?