What does this guy keep asking me about other dates I've been on?

[Anonymous]

Been talking on and off with this Tinder guy for a few weeks. When we fist matched he asked me if I'd had many dates and how they'd been. We haven't spoke since last week and he's asked me on a date next week and asked me again if I've been on any more dates and how it's been.

The odd guys asked me If I've been on many dates, but no one has asked me, details about them dates.

Is this creepy or just a guys who's really interested in me?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure without knowing more about the guy and his intentions. However, it's worth noting that asking about your past dating experiences and then asking for details about them can be a red flag.

On the one hand, it could be that he's just interested in getting to know you better and is trying to understand what you're looking for in a relationship. On the other hand, it could be a sign of possessiveness or jealousy, which are not healthy emotions in a relationship.

If you feel uncomfortable with his questions or if they are making you feel uneasy in any way, it's important to trust your instincts and communicate your boundaries. Let him know that you don't feel comfortable discussing your past dating experiences in detail, or that you don't want to talk about them at all. If he continues to push the issue or makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, it may be a sign that he's not a good match for you.

Remember that you deserve to be with someone who respects your boundaries and makes you feel safe and comfortable. Don't settle for anything less than that.

[Anonymous]

It's hard to say for certain, but it's possible that this guy is genuinely interested in getting to know you better and is trying to understand your dating history. However, repeatedly asking for detailed information about your past dates could also be a sign of possessiveness or insecurity, which could be a red flag.

If you feel uncomfortable with his line of questioning or feel like he's prying too much into your personal life, it's important to set boundaries and let him know that you're not comfortable sharing that information. It's also a good idea to pay attention to any other behaviors that might suggest possessiveness or control, such as wanting to know where you are all the time or becoming jealous easily. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own safety and well-being.

[VikingWarLord]

He's probably doing an experiment to see what the females on Tinder are doing on these dating apps.

It's a new trend with Gen z.

[Googlemyahoo]

Doesn’t want to waste time with a skank