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ok but like i have a terrible habit of entering online discussions of my favourite animes lol. i was totally shocked to witness fans calling the second male lead of yubisaki to renren / a sign of affection anime, oushi, a total misogynistic ableist guy for telling the main character to not go out at night, or overly trust her love interest, this older handsome guy. and im like, hold on?

1. She's a teenage girl. 2. She's mute. 3. It's Japan we're talking about! There's a myriad of tweets on weird behaviour of Japanese men... Of course as a friend he's gonna worry? He's gonna scold her? He likes her too, although he's not particularly nice about it. How is risky behaviour empowering for mute women?

So I recently saw his ex posted a photo of them acting all cozy at a wedding together (the wedding has the exact date from last Sunday) and this raised my suspicion that there might be cheating going on… I asked him about it and he seemed honest but I’m not sure who to trust.

Would you consider these characteristics/things to be a sign of potential infidelity?

• Wasn’t defensive when confronted, willing to talk about it with me the entire night
• Gave me his social media passwords
• Gave me his phone to look through
• His mom told me that he was home Sunday morning and he spent the rest of the day (of the supposed wedding) with me
• Came over the next day because I asked to talk about this again, he listened and answered all questions
• Got pissed at his ex and completely sided with me, because she has a habit of posting old photos of them

Some red flags 🚩:

• The photo of the wedding has the date of last Sunday (but then why would he be willing to take photos with her knowing that she’ll post them online, and he knows I can see her posts)
• The wedding ceremony was held early morning to noon. His mom left his house at 11 and he only came to see me at 1:30 PM
• Her ex’s friends also reposted the photo on their accounts (but his ex used to post old photos of them acting as if they were still together)
• Last year he was caught still talking to his ex, but he has sinced changed and cut her off (from what he’s shown me the past year)