I am still hanging by a thread...

[Anonymous]

Looking back, everything felt so fragile, like I was hanging by a thread. I had this belief that what I shared with that person was something real, something I could trust, and something that could stand the test of time. But over time, I started to feel it slipping away, and I didn’t know how to stop it. Every day, it seemed like something shifted, like the bond that once felt so strong was slowly unraveling without any clear reason why. I kept asking myself where it all went wrong, how something that had felt so certain, so stable, could suddenly become full of doubt and confusion. The disappointment weighed on me more than I cared to admit, because I had invested so much of myself emotionally, mentally, even physically and to see it all fall apart was hard to bear. I kept replaying every conversation, every moment we shared, trying to find some sign or clue that could explain what had happened. But no matter how much I thought about it, the answers always seemed just out of reach, leaving me feeling more lost than ever. It felt like I was standing on the edge, waiting for something anything to either make things better or confirm that it was really over. I couldn’t figure out whether I was still holding on to something worth saving, or if I was just clinging to the memory of what we once had. Every time I tried to move on, I found myself returning to that same place unsure of what was real, hurt by the person I cared about, and caught in this cycle of uncertainty. It was like everything I had once thought was stable and secure had been ripped away, and now I was left trying to find my footing in a space where I didn’t know what to believe anymore. The thread that held everything together was thin, fragile, and I wasn’t sure how much longer it would hold.

[ohsheeT]

It was real until the point it wasn't.

In life and in love we all fall down sometimes it's our fault. Sometimes not

Look back and take all the positives then stand up. Because now it's time for the learning experience not of the relationship

But you.. most people want to just lay there when they fall down. and ask why
And paint a picture of thoughts understanding. Hurt pain love there feeling and that's OK


Or after falling they stand up shake there head as if it's a dream. Knowing that it's not. But then they take that first step and another
And another and this is when the growth and learning comes in to your heart mind soul spirit..

In life we make it how we want it to be.
But if you stop and think about it life on this planet all of us .
Weather in a relationship or not. Friends or not. Pets or not..

Life is all about each and everyone of us.
No matter what we do in life who we do it with it all comes back to us. Good times bad times it all comes back to us. It's how we get through it by ourselves to grow. To the next level if you look back at life and everything you've been through. It's all one big learning experience that we all have to go through

And all of us go through it in different ways in the same ways
This is your Journey, you're learning experienyes your next level.. for only you. it's your moment of truth Your strength and weaknesses and your choices

And after this moment after you get through this, another one will start.

And the people of gag. That have read. You're first story of this to this story. And we too get to learn many many things depending on how you read your story
Depending on how we feel.
Your weaknesses and your strength in your story

I'm sorry that you have to feel what you feel. And i'm sorry that you had to go through this.. It's gonna sound crazy but I believe you're blessed

And I believe anybody that reads Your first and second story We'll be blessed by learning everything that you have done and everything that you feel.

What it tells me is that All of us Are on our own journey from start to finish.
And no matter what happens , it's our choice of the outcome Of who we choose to be and to be the best we can be.. No matter what we go through. And from start to finish, no matter who or what we bring in to our moment in time it's a challenge. That we take on. Not knowing the out come off it. With only faith. And beliefs
in ourselfs and our choices And then you have to be honest. No matter which direction, be honest and say well.
This sucks.
And bla bla bla
Or We are honest and we say this sucks Learn everything that you possibly can from it

Grow next level. Or we don't , and we do it again..

Like I said I hate you had to go through this but your pain your life I now understand mine.
(Life) a little better. I don't know what other people will learn from it but all the above is what I got out of it and I thank you

[OlderAndWiser]

Life is a journey of some highs and some lows and many in-betweens. Some of the highs and lows happen to us but most of them occur because of our actions and inactions; much of our life experience is self-inflicted.

I began my early years with some idealistic notions about relationships, what they meant, what they would do for me, what I would do for a partner. I was very unrealistic and my expectations caused some early relationships to fail. Those early experiences were devastating but at least - I told myself - I could learn some lessons from my mistakes and not repeat my errors. In fact, I did become more realistic, I put fewer demands on my partners, and I began to have some successes.

As difficult as it my be, you need to examine your behavior to ask how you may have contributed to your own misery. You won't like some of the answers to your questions but that is the start of making yourself happier as an individual and better as a partner.

[dlaczego]

It's so sad... but the best you can do to yourself is leave the uncertainty and move on. Some people aren't worthy of our time.

A technical request. Could you add paragraphs to your future texts to make reading easier?

[myTake Owner]

I will 🙂

[deniz_9]

how you wrote this is beautifully sad. i feel you girlyyy. dont give uppp🫶

[glennos89]

It's seems you are/where in a difficult situation.
I believe everything happens for a reason. Somebody comes into your life for a reason but once this purpose is being for filled it's time to move on.

Ofcourse you have to fight for any relationship in order to make it last. Clear communication is key to make it work and both party's have to invest and listen to eachother to be able to make it succesfull.

If you are still in this situation I would advise you to communicate clearly what it is that you need from him in order to make it work and then it's up to him if the relationship gets better or not.

From there you can make a educated decision wether you should move on or not knowing that you gave everything to make it work and can leave peacefully if things didn't work out in the end

[nawtee_me]

You are stronger than you know, like a spiders silken thread. Just don’t give up and let time have its way. The past is old and full of memories, the future is unborn and full of thought, the present is now and full of both memories and thoughts, and that is the best time to live…..

I have faith in you….

[myTake Owner]

Thank you! Very nice words like always🩷

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

"The answers always seemed just out of reach"

So relatable, in retrospect.

Relatable, several times in several relations, in how I could only make sense of the events, years after, decades sometimes. After all this time, I consider I didn't have the capacity to read the script at play nor decipher enough the other person's views. So I lived what I had to live, with the limitations of that time

[Bklynbadboy12]

I love the way you write your very talented. I don't normally read these long stories but I read all of yours I get lost in the words. Keep writing cause your very good at it.

[myTake Owner]

Thank you! You are always of the first people to comment🙂

[lightbulb27]

Yes is thw diffeeence between your aub conscious projection and real effort to love and work.
Eork on building a stronger base and maybe work nezt time. Ita but a small rope that holds a cruise shop to the dock.

[exitseven]

You are mourning the loss. Some day soon you will wake up and it will not be the first thing that you think about. Then you might notice that you do not fell as bad as you did the day before.

[darkxoangel92]

Girly I’ve been hanging by a thread myself since my fiancé passed away. The grief is so debilitating and it’s consumed my entire life. I truly don’t know how I’m still living.