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I've had mixed reactions to breakups. One in which I recognized was basically over anyways, I felt nothing. I felt angry and sad when infidelity occurred, but my last one, I feel relieved.

It was hardly a relationship, just 18 days of lots of talking and all. But her need for attention became insatiable, I spent hours a day talking and it was never enough. She blew my phone the hell up when I went to make soup and tend to my dogs for 10 minutes.

I go to the bathroom, I come back to several missed calls and accusations that I cheated. No matter how much time i spent talking to her, the next day, she always wanted even more time commitment and on video calls, she got mad when I tried to multi task.

Her constant needs for reassurance, short fuse and a relationship in which she'd already brought up marriage several times, her need for attention and validation being exhausting, and it felt like being suffocated.

I told her over and over I needed space, she'd send 10 messages within a minute of me saying it. All this to say I am happy she is out of my life, she was very toxic and controlling, and I won't be with someone who doesn't even respect me enough to stop pestering me every 2 seconds.

She got me out of my comfort zone with cooking, that's the best thing I got from it. I ended it with her, brushing off her angry closing remarks. I'll find someone else, it's okay.

I hope the next woman I form a connection with will be more mature and reasonable. How do you usually feel after breakups and why?

Actually it doesn't have to be political but generally the issues about politics causes controversial arguments so I wrote it as 'controversial/political'

I avoid those kind of arguements here because eventually I am not here for a mission. People are here for fun. No need to try educating people. In addition you can find yourself arguing with an ignorant and according to my experiences ignorant people always start throwing insults to pull another person to his/her level when they can't find anything logical to defend their arguements. Although I try staying calm in such situations they can make me angry too so I avoid from talking about controversial issues here.

Finally This site's name is 'girlsaskguys' it has a colourful background (pink 🩷, blue 💙) People talk about sexuality, dates, love relationships e. t. c. I think if you want to argue about serious topics there are more suitable places on the internet.