Search Results: getting with ex

How do I find better dating options?

I’m going on here because. I just turned 30 and I’m not getting any younger. I was wondering how do I find better dating options. option 1) guy that wants me to quit my job as a high school teacher to become a stay...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I need advice about my ex?

So my ex and I dated for almost 4 years and recently broke up in March. We had plans to get engaged & married this year and he already had a ring and had asked my dad about marrying me. I broke up with him due to the way...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is him bringing up his ex on the first date a red flag I could ignore?

I feel like it normally is and I’m just ignoring the obvious/trying to excuse but I really like him and he seems into me. But everywhere I’ve read says bringing up the ex on the first date is a red flag. I don’t want to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Possible temporary breakup?

My 'ex' and I broke up a couple of times. We tended to push and pull each other. Couldn't find balance. We agree we rushed into a relationship, naively thought our feelings for each other would be enough. We came to find...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is my ex boyfriend planning on getting me back?

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend due to some issues that kept popping up in the relationship. We both wanted to get married. He was first to fall in love before I did. We haven't spoken in a couple months. *My church has...

Joyus123

Xper 3 Age: 33

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Is it normal to go wild after too many years were taken away from you?

Well first my former bullies (4th to 8th grade) took away my developmental years and stunt my social skills. Instead I would end up stuck bored at home, reading books and just focusing on getting good grades. I was never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I get over this breakup?

my ex, and I have we’re together for about four years. my ex was not a horrible human being but he definitely didn’t appreciate me took me for granted a lot of times and I always felt like if I left, he wouldn’t care. In...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why did my ex keep mentioning this?

I met up with my ex for a catch up and he randomly kept saying that I tend to think I must get married or buy a house by a certain age. I’ve never thought like that at all. I saw him again for a coffee, and he randomly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ever regretted not giving someone closure?

I have only ghosted one person once in my entire life. I only dated her for a few weeks but she was looking for a “savior”. She called out of nowhere to visit her when she was on suicide watch due to an incident with her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I have only ghosted one person once in my entire life. I only dated her for a few weeks but she was looking for a “savior”. She called out of nowhere to visit her when she was on

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Why hasn’t my ex of 7 years not told his mum we broke up still after 4 months?

She knows he is getting a mortgage on his own but she doesn’t know we broke up, his STEP family know but she’s his only real family - he tells me she knows but she doesn’t because she still answers my calls infront of him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex still hasn’t told his mum we broke up?

We were together 7 years, he is Thai, he told his dads friends that are sort of his friends when they were out on a lads night that we broke up they told his step dad and then the news travelled from his step dad to his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when your ex does this?

Ex of four years, broke up with me again over small stuff right before we were supposed to move in. Said he had doubts and didn’t feel it was fair to me that he couldn’t get over minor issues we supposedly moved past....

Anonymous

(25-29)

I need advice on these emotions I’m feeling post break up?

I was in a relationship with my ex for four years. I wasn’t perfect in anyway I definitely had my fair share of issues. The only difference between me and him was that I took accountability for my issues, and I tried my...

Cass510

Xper 5 Age: 29

Dating is exhausting!! why the hell doesn’t even exist to begin?

I am done with dating as a whole! I don’t even want a man at all, I am tired of looking stupid. I am tired of the lies, misconceptions, the miscommunications, misunderstandings, the dishonesty…like damn you are not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did he still choose her? will he come back?

We have been best friends for two years, both in on and off toxic relationships that are almost identical neither of us getting the time or attention we desire, everywhere we go with our partner it’s arguing and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he choosing toxic but comfort over a deeper connection?

Me and this guy met 2 years ago. Both in toxic relationships where we werent getting our needs met. Feelings grew between us, he left his relationship thinking I would leave mine bc we were having issues. I said no I have...

roseyynh

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

I am getting a new job and my reporting manager is my ex. Should I take it up?

My avoidant ex was salty about the breakup and has created quiet a drama around it. He is my new reporting manager at the new firm. Since job market is down, and the pay I’m getting in the new place is 150% high,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, My girlfriend of 6 months (Latina 28F) has a black spade tattoo on her butt, says it was from long time ago?

My girlfriend says her ex boyfriend made her get it (a 2 year relationship when she was around 22) and she wish she could get it removed but she can't afford it right now. The thing is though is she never said anything...

GrumpleSS

Xper 1 Age: 32