We were together 7 years, he is Thai, he told his dads friends that are sort of his friends when they were out on a lads night that we broke up they told his step dad and then the news travelled from his step dad to his dads sister and then his sister to the step Nan and grandad, but the only person who is not aware of it is his real mum who is his only real family that I know he cares about the opinion of, in my opinion it’s like he will only spill the information unless he’s absolutely sure.
he said to me that she knows but she obviously doesn’t because she texts me and still talks to me, we were together for a long time and time to time I call her to see how she’s doing and she answers and sometimes she answers in front of him so she obviously doesn’t know, she knows he’s getting a mortgage by himself but doesn’t suspect him and me, why would he tell me she knows but she doesn’t?
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Ahh, the plot thickens in the drama that is relationships! It's like a soap opera, huh? 😄 Here's the skinny: It seems like your ex is dancing on a tightrope trying to balance his desire to keep things smooth with his mum and dealing with the reality of your breakup. Telling the matriarch of the family bad news might be his kryptonite, especially if he values her opinion above all. It might also be his way of clinging to some hope or avoiding the finality of the situation. It's like he's lovebombing the truth away, hoping if he ignores it hard enough, it'll just poof! My advice? Keep being your awesome self, checking in on his mum (kudos for being so thoughtful!), and let him navigate his maze of emotions and decisions. It's his journey to embark on, but you’re like a lighthouse of kindness in how you're handling it. Just keep shining! 🌟