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This cute girl started recently and she is quite nice. I didn’t think too much initially when she was presented (maybe that she is cute but that’s all). But the past couple of months I found that she has a really cool personality. Really nice, smart, sense of humour. She remembered some details for me even tho we are in different departments. We joke around. We had a very nice conversation about her hometown while travelling from work once and it seemed that she enjoyed our brief time then. However I never really though anything for my colleagues ever. For me they are just colleagues. I am kinda one of the cool colleagues with whom you can always talk to and get help and people usually expect me to do something in a convo. But here I am wondering after I kinda got nervous talking to her the other day.. heart pumping, weird. There is this one colleague who gives her a lot of attention and sits next to her. They joke around and stuff. Even gave her “jokingly” a “my-work-wife” bracelet. Yesterday I got a notification for her profile in Facebook. Was wondering if should just add her (I rarely add coworkers). I can talk shit in front of people for hours, but when it comes to the romantic side of things, I am kinda weak. So maybe just sit on my ass and pass? I have enough work and sh*t to ignore her but I find myself thinking…maybe she is just a good person and I shouldn’t mix things (today she even gave me free lasagna that she made for some cook-off they were doing at her department…talk about the way to a man’s hearth is his stomach.) So continue talking to her, add her on Fb and plan to ask her out?

A little context. I’m (22M) and I’ve been currently talking to this girl for about a month and I’m conflicted if I should tell her I’m on deferred probation soon or about 3-6 months in. Make a long story, I used to do psychedelics and it ended with me being on probation 7 years but I can get off in 3 1/2 years if I don’t violate it and meet all my requirements. This happened like a year ago and ever since then I don’t do ANY drugs or are around anyone/anything that’ll lead me to violate my probation. It was a big mistake. I’ve been slowly completing my probation requires and have 5 days left of labor detail and still have to start on my community service, which I plan on doing about 2-4 hrs a week. I have my own place, car, job, and am currently building a business which I plan on launching by the end of this year. I have a mentor and business advisor and work on my business nearly everyday and I am very passionate about it and I believe she can tell too or at least is really realizing it (I already told her I’m passionate about my business and just business in general). I take very good care of myself, no kids, masculine, and intelligent. But at the end of the day I feel like once she hears I’m on probation it’s gonna automatically be a no go. Any advice or suggestions will be greatly appreciated.