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The father is the authority figure in the house. He's also there to teach the daughter about loving herself and be secure with herself. He teaches her about having good values and keeping those values with her as she goes out into the word on her own. When the dad's not there, the daughter is more likely to develop trust issues, abandonment issues and having low self esteem. With all this comes following what a lot of other women do and start par taking in premuscuity and starting an onlyfans. Most mothers aren't the authority figure so most moms won't do or say anything and other women will tell her to do what she wants and tell her she doesn't need a man. The irony. She doesn't need men but yet she'll put herself in a position to be used by men. Sleeping around and letting a bunch of guys fuck her. Eventually when a good man comes around that has values, he won't want her and the men that will accept her are the men that she won't let things last with. In a premuscious woman and (im talking in general because a lot of people love to use exceptions for everything) will have a harder time being in a relationship. Being premiscuous affects both genders but without a doubt it does affect women more. This is why fathers are important. A dad does have a big impact on a daughter's future. But why would you disagree?

Let's be real, people often say how parents give unconditional love to their kids but going by the past couple of decades and especially the past couple of years when the COVID pandemic was happening, I was convinced that this whole concept of "unconditional love" is all bullshit. Even unconditional love from parents is all bullshit because they do have a limit towards their own kids without hardly ever being upfront about it. I've seen plenty of parents who are very quick to cut their own kids out of their life over petty drama and how quickly parents would throw their own kids into the wolves way too soon (as soon as they hit age 18) without any actual real-world preparation and not give a fuck about them once they finally reach adulthood.

The very harsh truth about the real world is that every single human being on this planet only cares about themselves/is self-serving and would kick the ladders down on others if that helps them get ahead in society. Even family members don't sincerely care about other family members and see their other family members as nothing more than nuisances to them.

I've learn to accept that society doesn't give 2 fucks about men in general. They only give a shit about men when men can either make them money or provide them something they need, and even then, men get absolutely no appreciation or respect for doing things for people.

I have yet to find a woman who very sincerely cares about men's mental health problems and doesn't use men's deep personal secrets against them as weapons.

You may think this is a stupid question, but some people I know have different feelings on this. I chalk it up to just either having a brain fart, or not thinking it over a lot of time, in my opinion.

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While I don't disagree that society does not owe anyone anything and that there's nothing wrong with boomers enjoying their own money or wealth (mostly provided by their WW2 vet fathers), when boomers start increasing their retirement funds at the expense of all the younger generations' futures through taxes, that's when I started having serious problems with that generation yet they still have the fucking nerve to still call younger people like myself "lazy" and "self-entitled"(while many of them probably live comfortably in gated communities or suburbs) despite that I work 50 hours a week at my full-time job (getting only 5 hours of sleep per day at max) while I can barely even afford to go to college part-time. And no, I don't waste my money on updating my smartphone to the latest version or anything like many out-of-touch old farts assume about me. They all go to food, gas, and many other bills.

Some people think if they “have to” ask for anything, it’s proof that their partner doesn’t really care. And that if they truly cared they would think to do it on their own without being asked.

The thought goes that if you really, really care about someone, you anticipate their needs and desires and meet them without any communication necessary. By the same token, not being a “thoughtful” person is akin to being selfish, cold, and uncaring.

Is this you? Do you wait for your partner to notice the little things you like, or drop hints, silently hoping they’ll “get it”? Do you let a birthday or an anniversary go by, miserably, only to complain the next day? Is there a secret test going on that your partner keeps failing?

The type of life that everyone notices when you die. Wht i see is that for every Moses type figure there is 100,000,000 nobodies

Are you the type to like to people please?

Here are some signs that you might be a people pleaser if you aren't sure:

Agreeing with whoever is in front of you. Many of us learn how to politely listen to others as part of our social skills. That can veer into people-pleasing behavior if you constantly agree with people because you want to earn their admiration and not because you believe what you’re saying.

Apologizing for things that aren’t your fault. People pleasers often make themselves responsible for the emotional responses of others. If someone feels bad, you may blame yourself or fear that person thinks you’re the problem. It’s good to say you’re sorry if you’ve hurt someone, but there may be a deeper issue if you’re frequently apologizing for things you have no control over.

Not being able to say no. If you find it difficult to tell others no when they ask you for something, you may be a people pleaser. Many people pleasers prefer making up excuses later to get out of a commitment instead of saying no from the start. If you do follow through, you can regret not having the strength to stand up for yourself.

Changing your personality depending on who’s around you. People pleasers tend to shift their behavior and attitude to match that of the person or group. That can lead to you acting in ways that are out of character or participating in actions you disagree with just to fit in socially. People pleasers tend to do anything possible to avoid conflict, even if it means turning into an entirely different person.

Your worth depends on how others see you. People pleasers need validation from others to feel good about themselves. They can go to extremes to earn words of praise from others. The confidence of a people pleaser rises and falls based on how others perceive them.

Does any of this resonate with you? feels like things you do?