Search Results: get a compliment

Why am I not “perfect “ enough to be with…?

I’m very insecure… 3 guys I talked to said “you’re perfect “ “you’re perfect as you are” but they don’t want to be with me.. and what makes it worse is that they went on to get married and left me shattered because I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

True or false: men rarely get positive reinforcement once they hit adulthood?

We are taught to man up which is overall a very good in my opinion. It has to do with taking accountability for our actions and enduring tough times to the best of our ability. It’s also about doing what works and solving...

blueonblack22

Yoda Age: 40

We are taught to man up which is overall a very good in my opinion. It has to do with taking accountability for our actions and enduring tough times to the best of our ability. It’s

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Why do you think guy has a soft spot for me?

The guy friend I often see seems to have a soft spot for me. Whenever we see each other, he checks if I have eaten and will sometimes foot the bill. He mentioned previously that he can't help but care for me when I got...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

What do I do? I honestly don’t feel like there’s any hope because I keep getting hurt & I never get chosen by guys they have someone else already?

So weird like they could go with me but yet have someone else lined up I feel like I can’t connect with anyone I don't know who I like and who likes me I just want something equal but I’m just disappointed because of how...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I feel about online dating? Was it good before, but now it has become very bad with low value users?

My opinion about online when i did was starting is was good i got to meet a few guys but after i give up since now is very bad and not many users are not interested in long-term relationships. I had started to notice rude...

Spatmates25

Xper 1 Age: 27

Am I having a weird pseudo relationship with a guy?

We are extremely close with a bisexual guy friend because he was the one who was there when a family member died. Ever since, i often go to his city every 2 months and we hang out often. I noticed whenever I wear...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Family & Friends

Do some people never get compliments by others?

During a trip to a vacation rental I met a woman who had 5 kids and I asked her, "how did you manage to raise 5 kids? Isn't that hard?" She looked so surprised and flattered when I asked her that. I did not expect her to...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Flirting

Is it likely to be someone known to me?

I got added by a man who found one of my Social media questions interesting. After I added him, he insisted that we aren’t known to each other, but talked to me in an overly sexual, flirtatious way and he repeatedly gave...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

If a guy calls you pretty (unprompted) does that mean he's interested in you?

So I recently went through a breakup with someone I worked with, and it was pretty well known throughout the store that we were together/a thing. This is necessary information for the question haha. There is a guy in my...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is he into me or only sympathize for me?

A male client of mine found out me and my ex ended due to ex calling it off. To my surprise, my client got so mad, he started saying things like he doesn’t know what he lost and what a wonderful person I am including...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why does she giggle whenever we talk?

Hi, people. I need some help to understand feminine behaviour. Some background first. Half a year ago I (33 m) met a girl (23 f) at an extension class. We bonded over our similar academic interests and international...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm to shy to try and talk with women, especially in front of other people?

Rejection for a man is one of the most humiliating things for a guy like me. Especially when you build up so much courage to not even get a response back so for that reason I'm scared to talk to women and I even more...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How to know if he's just friendly or a player? Will I have a chance to shoot my shot?

This classmate first attempted to talk to me in the fall 2023. Coincidentally, we got classes together again in spring 2024. He's always the person to talk to me first, I never went up to him. I'm an introvert and I'd...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How would you react or feel if someone complimented your eyes but got the color wrong?

It’s happened to me a couple times. Like woops 😬😅

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

It’s happened to me a couple times. Like woops 😬😅

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How should I deal with a guy I like who flirts with me, but has a girlfriend?

He’s new in my department at work and when he first started we would flirt a little, but in all our conversations he never mentioned he has a girlfriend. I’ve wondered if it’s because he’s a private person, but he was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he going to ask me out?

I see this guy every couple weeks as he oversees and directs our stores.. In the last couple months when I do get the opportunity to see him, he can’t stop hugging me when we are going to say goodbye and every hug is a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Should I add her on Facebook?

So there’s a woman at work who says hi to me every time she sees me. I didn’t really read too much into it because she seems pretty outgoing. Here recently though she has complimented my hair and has said things like you...

scott1911

Xper 1 Age: 32

Why is it so hard for me to accept that he genuinely likes me?

I have been talking to this guy for going on two months. We’ve been on one real date, it was a breakfast date and we hang out often after work, we’re co workers. We work overnights. So, when we get off in the morning at...

dearryy

Xper 5 Age: 27