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I completely disregarded dating when I was 23 roughly, I thought at 5’6 I’m f****d, I had always been very insecure and bitter about it.
When I completely gave up on finding girls, it felt like a relief for me, a weight off my shoulders. Like for once I didn’t feel bad about myself for once, I felt like I was living for me ✊

I have never dated. I don’t feel lonely. At peace in life, but it hurts when you see a girl love a tall guy. However, it’s all superficial anyway so it’s not real love.
I don’t know why men get such bad credit for being superficial, women are 100x more superficial than men. I’ve seen them talk about looks, money, height etc. I knew dating and love weren’t real, and that I could never be the ideal or dream man.

Sucks but that’s life, god gave you that card

On Halloween night I hit up a kava bar that I like to frequent. I’m not an alcoholic but I’ve really stayed away from booze in the last few years just for health reasons. The place is meant for recovery.

While I went to order a kava drink I noticed that bartender was dressed in a provocative sexy nurse uniform costume. She was showing cleavage.

I was acquaintances with this girl. Knew her first name. We had briefly friendly conversations in the past. She is cute but I never hit on her. I was always respectful. I am guessing she’s in her mid 20s.

Anyway my eyes instinctively glanced at her body and when I realized I was staring I quickly turned away. Again she was dressed provocatively.

Despite catching myself it was too late. She noticed that I noticed and she didn’t like it. She then gave me gave me the “don’t stare at me you creep” look.

And that really pissed me off. Of course I never did nor ever will say anything stupid. My eyes instinctively noticed for a good second but it’s not like I kept on staring. I didn’t indulge the thought. What right does she have to judge me given she fricken dressed up that way to get noticed to begin with?

Anyway I can’t control how people are going to think. But this is a major hypocrisy I see in women. They dress provocatively expecting to only get attention from where they want it vs. naively expecting not get noticed from where they don’t.

Hate that.

Hopefully this won't irk too many folks, because it could certainly be considered controversial, but it's just too good, too appropriate not to give a shout out to...

I don't mind if a superior Black female comes up with a clever put down, especially when it's particularly demeaning to guys like us...

'PSM' -- pale, stale male -- how can we not embrace such an amazingly accurate assessment of ourselves?

I am 28. I am a mechanic, 60k a year but long hours. I’ve always been single. I’ve tried dating apps and meeting girls in person but I’m never successful. I tried tinder and in a couple days I got no likes whereas I’ve a friend who got 30 likes in a day.
I am not bad looking, regular joe I think and healthy weight. Although I am 5’9 which places me at further disadvantage.

My experience with dating is that if you wish to find a pretty and nice girl, you need to be really good looking. You gotta be really special and I don’t think that can ever be me.

I feel I deserve better than 0 matches and my pride makes me hate women and give up completely. If I am that disliked then I guess I’m an incel. If I do receive a match it’s typically a girl I find very unattractive ☹️

Do I deserve no women swiping me and being rejected and ignored? I can’t see myself ever having a girlfriend. I have to find something that can entertain me more than any girl can.