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Well, I do admit bold guys are attractive my future boyfriend better be polite or I do dump him.

Am I sure I would never be attracted to a rude uncultured swine? 100% positive.

I had two bad boys liking me before and honestly I wanted nothing more than slamming one with a hammer for his lack of manners and slap the second one for embarrassing me in public with his untimely confessions (times in front of the teacher when I would clench fists to stop my hand from gathering strength)

Jerks are jerks, whoever wants to reform them!

Thanks goodness I would never see their faces again in this life 😊🎉

I love daddy so much for the phrase 'I wouldn't mind entering prison for this brat so my daughter is safe, I didn't raise her to cry for someone I has to discipline today in his parents' stead' that stiffened one from going on with his 'jokes' in middle school ever since (good grief I had period of desperation at this time because of him and his gang of friends, if he dared to go for sexual harrasment I would've been the one in trouble for getting violent)

So yeah, I has that hatred for shameless boys, aside from the two who liked me, many likes to tease me and watch me panic or gets angry unless I scream they don't stop like sticky bugs.

Really girls, I'm not you and peopleeach has their preferences, but why go for a deal breaker?

As much as I love my daddy, I can't find his smoking behavior attractive but dangerous, I'm eager for him to reduce if not miraculously stop it.

Alcohol and cigarettes are red alarms when on a partner.

So I do never why some would go for drug dealers or ones with chunni syndrome.

The charm is great but choose your first love (at least) candidates with your head instead of hormones.

I asked mom about why women would choose drunkards she said it's because they're soft-hearted and usually easy-going.

I'm confused, sure dad never hit or screamed at us (mom, sis, me) when he used to drink before I turned 5, there's plenty violent ones.

Obviously it will matter more or less depending on which people are misunderstanding snd what the consequences may be, but still, overall would you say you are someone who is bothered by being misunderstood and if so do you resign yourself to being misunderstood, or try to make yourself heard,

or are you someone who does not care much as in you will make an effort to be clear but after that you’ve done what you can and people get you or they don’t, Cesar is vie 🤷🏻‍♀️

I hate being misunderstood it’s one of my biggest issues. I mean I think k it’s good to be clear but it bothers me to I think an unhealthy degree to have people misinterpret health esp when I think they are doing it on purpose or just being lazy as apposed to simply genuinely not getting my meaning. If it’s genuine I don’t kind at all it’s the more disingenuous stuff that gets me. I think bc I grew up in a really crazy environment where true was raise raise ass true every moment was like being on trial by people who only wanted to amuse themselves with your earnestness and see how far you’d go to prove your gawd turn just F you up for life anyhow—- no matter what I did no matter how hard I tried to be correct & precise I was gaslit and punished for stuff I didn’t do.

But I’m no longer in that situation & I don't know I think I should work in letting people do the work if they want to understand something they can ask if not that’s their problem… but basically that’s not my personality lol I’m gonna explain stuff till it sticks or someone walks away 🤷🏻‍♀️