What is going on? advice from everyone please?

[Anonymous]

I just moved in with my boyfriend and we got into a pretty bad argument and he over did it, he became very mean and aggressive then kicked me out. By the end of the day he was crying and asked me to come back home and was sorry and really loved me and knew we could get past this. I also found out I am pregnant and told him I did not feel ready to have a child. He said abortion was not an option and if I didn’t want the kid he would raise it on his own. Few days later we got into an argument again and he got very mad at me and said he was done and he did not want me to move back in. He said I was toxic and kept playing with his emotions and only stressing him out. He told me he was going to go out and hook up with other girls etc. I was hurt and mad so I sent him a picture of me with my ex. Since then he has been acting like he does not want to be with me anymore and said he does not care if I get an abortion and he is not worried about me anymore. I am very sad and I have expressed to him how much I miss him and still love him and how I don’t understand how he can switch up so quick. He said I did this and I made my bed and I need to lay on it. Why is he being like this?

[Anonymous]

First off you’re both acting childish. Second what was the argument about?

[Asker]

The first argument was because he was out till the next day parting with his fiends and other females but thinks he can tell me what time I can be home by when I’m out with my friends. The last argument was because he said I stress him out too much and switch up a lot. All I did was call him out on his BS and stand up for myself. I’m starting to suspect he is a narcissist but I am not sure.

[Opinion Owner]

Did he invite you to go along? I don’t think he’s ready for a real relationship. I’m almost leaving toward telling you to leave him. What was the purpose of moving in w him? What did he say when that conversation came up?

[Asker]

No when he hangs out with this particular friend he doesn’t invite me. At 2am I messaged to ask him where he was and he said “the club come”. That’s not a straight invite in my opinion. Exactly just wasted 1 month of my life. After he kicked me out the first time he cried telling me to come back home and Saying how he’s just so attached to me it hurts and then when I was about to move back in again I gave him attitude and hung up the phone and he message me to say not to even bother coming back to his place and that he’s done with me. And he’s been a complete asshole ever since. It’s been about a week now

[Opinion Owner]

I think k you need to leave. This doesn’t sound like it’ll change, not anytime soon. He’s too immature. He said come because he knew you wouldn’t. He does t respect you as a partner. He will co ti he to do it as long as you keep taking him back. Better to cut your loses now than to get way too invested to where it couldn’t potentially hurt you even worse.

[Staximus]

This does not sound like a match made in heaven. Let it end.

[Asker]

Easier said than done

[Staximus]

Be done with the drama. You two are not good for each other.

[Anonymous]

Give him some time to cool down and then try talking to him again.