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Why do guys ghost?

I dated a guy twice and was totally attracted to him. After the second meeting, he texted that he really enjoyed it but never messaged back afterward. I can't get him out of my head and struggle to get over him, even if I...
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At the end of a first date, if he thinks you aren't a good match, how/when do you want him to tell you? Guys, how do you tell her?

I have had at least 75 first dates as a result of online dating, and a few were horrible (pictures not current, lied about age, etc.) Most of them weren't that awful, but we just weren't a good match. When I got some...
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I have had at least 75 first dates as a result of online dating, and a few were horrible (pictures not current, lied about age, etc.) Most of them weren't that awful, but we just Show More
The guy can just never call the girl and she'll get the message
The guy can call her a few days later and tell her in a phone call
The guy can send her a text message a few days later
The guy can send her a text right after the date, like when she is on her way home
The guy can tell her face-to-face at the end of the first date
They should discuss this possibility in advance and follow whatever plan they agreed to
Something else I'll explain in a comment
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Is Domestic Abuse?

I’ve been talking to this guy for 3 months he seemed really nice but he was very clingy fast. When I say clingy I mean he held my hand on the first date and had me meet his mom on the second date. I quickly notice his...
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Is she a sane and rational human being if she shows much interest and the ghosts me for two weeks?

Everything was so nice with this 20 year-old girl (she is most likely not a woman yet). We texted each other regularly, we went out twice and everything was going very well, we got closer and I showed more and more signs...
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Need guy help? What should I do?

So I’m now in a dilemma. I’ve been talking to this guy for two months. Meanwhile we have been talking, I feel like he wants a relationship but my mindset still isn’t set on one with him. He’s very loyal and very caring...
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I really dont know what to do, I have very strong feelings for her and can't only be friends, what should I do?

hey, me and this woman both early 30's met around 3 month ago through a dating app, i wasn't looking for anything special but than we met. im so confused about what to do because i was never in such situation. this woman...
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Is this a red flag or sign of control early on?

Basically I’ve been with my new boyfriend for almost a week now. We hit it off instantly from our first date to the second we started talking. He’s very kindhearted, open, funny, respectful, affectionate, and honest. He...
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Your phone isn't the enemy; it's YOU

There is an essential aspect of communications that young people overlook because of a horrible assumption that they make. Most young people looking for a partner rely on texting to communicate and that can be a fatal...
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What's the longest you went from interview to being hired for a job, to starting the job?

Most jobs I've had they interview you and hire on the spot. This time around I did a group interview, then a second interview, and 2 weeks later I got the offer, then after the background check they did the paperwork and...
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Court lost my file and all the evidence against me, coincidence or someone watching over me?

So it's actually the second time they lost my file, but this time they lost it for good. The first time, it was very convenient because my file was what was blocking me from changing my trial date, because in my file, it...
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So it's actually the second time they lost my file, but this time they lost it for good. The first time, it was very convenient because my file was what was blocking me from changing Show More
That's wicked.. someone is watching over you !
Coincidence
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Why are men difficult?

At the beginning of our relationship, things were going well. We were going on dates, I had met his mom, and he was really sweet. However, I noticed a change in him after I hung out with my friends. The first time I hung...
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Why does a guy play childish ‘make her jealous’ games when he chooses another girl over you?

I mean he liked and flirted with us both. He thought I rejected him many months previously as I didn’t realise him asking me out was a date per se. He started dating this other girl and even still sent mixed signals for...
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I told my boyfriend that I do not believe we are compatible, but he wants to work things out, how do I proceed?

My boyfriend and I met in June 2022 via a hinge and then made things official in late August after going on fun dates and getting to know each other; with that being said, I met his family and friends, and everything was...
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He had ghosted me, came back, I ghosted him, he came back and now he's ghosting me?

I met this guy a few months back. He would text me everyday but was flakey when it came to going on dates. I saw him once and we discussed a second date which he ended up canceling the last minute. Due to this I stopped...
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How do you deal with the guilt of rejecting someone who was very close to you both emotionally and physically, even if you are logically in the right?

So I once had feelings for this girl and asked her out on a date after 3 months of knowing her. This probably gave her the signals that I had feelings for her and she got to knew the same from common friends. But she...
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Girl who said she likes me, chose to get casual with my friend after I asked her out on a date and she left me hanging, now she wants me, should I go?

*Summary given at the end * I liked a girl and she liked me too. All our friend circle knew as well. Both of us were aware of it as well through the friend circle. After 3 months of a bit of cuddling lots of hugging and...
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How do you feel about clumsy women, would you still date one?

I'm super clumsy and I really struggle due to fact I have dyspraxia and dyslexia. I don't have much confidence and I'm always self doubting myself which leads me to making bigger mistakes because I'm always second...
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If a girl doesn’t set a date, is she not interested?

So went on two dates with this girl, second ended in a kiss. messaged her to set up a date, she said she is probably free next week but she will find out Sunday as her manager will let her know when she’s working. we got...
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I don't think I like women very much? Am I a sexist?

I wouldn't say I hate women. I love my mom, my wife, my little sister. I have a few female friends, I don't really have like an open vendetta against women. I just feel like most are annoying, full of shit, and don't...
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If a girl I’m dating says she is probably free next week, is that a soft rejection?

So I’ve been on two dates with a girl I met at work. both times when asking for the date she worked around my schedule as she isn’t a busy person. I asked her for a second date : “are you free anytime next week by the...
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