Search Results: should i call first

Boyfriends body count over 40, should I try to trust him?

So I have been dating and sleeping with this guy who is the same age as me for three months we are official and I have understood that he has called me his girlfriend and he has explained that he is sexually exclusive...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, What'syour opinion?

I started school in August and this boy lets called him Sam, Sam is friends with "Cody". I thought that Sam liked me but discovered that it was actually Cody that liked me. I was in the hallways on the first day of school...

Sprinkprinke89_

Xper 1 Age: 29

Whats your opinion?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would it be a red flag to you if the owner of a business followed a lot of dirty pages on social media?

by dirty mean like sexual / pornographic in nature. like if the owner of a business that employed a lot of young women was following a lot of dirty pages on instagram. to me seems like a red flag , cause it brings into...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Entertainment & Arts

What’s a song you like that is too awkward for you to comfortably sing along with?

I was driving home from a friend’s house tonight and was listening to some old music from when I was a kid. There was a novelty rap group made up of kids around my age back in the early 90s called Another Bad Creation, or...

WhiteSteve

Master Age: 47

Boyfriend is upset with me, because I discussed our fight with my bestie. What should I do?

We broke up two months ago because I overheard him talking trash about me to his friend. The thing is I recorded him secretly and he started blame shifting me and dumped me. Two months later we got back together and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Should I be worried or not?

It's been three days now that I've been getting calls in the middle of the night, the first time I was able to pick up, it was a man in his 40s based on his voice, he asked me if I was sleeping and if I I was alone, I...

12karen

Yoda Age: 22

Girl cancelled on a date yesterday. Her excuse was believable but I got a bad feeling she just found a “better deal”. Should I cut her off for good?

I had been planning a date with girl since last week. She was really excited about it but when I texted yesterday morning she responded saying she had to cancel because she unexpectedly got called into work. I do know...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I have become the one who always call and message first. She said yes when I asked her out on a 3rd date. Should I wait for her to contact me now?

Three dates after our second date, this girl's behavior suddenly changed. Now, we talk and text much less and I have become the one who always call and message first. Before that, she used to initiate conversations too....

A_Gentleman

Xper 4 Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

Why isn't he calling me anymore?

I don't know what we are... we were coworkers, then friends, then lovers... now we no longer work together and I don't know a thing. We broke up two months before I got out of work, cause I got jealous over him texting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a woman ghosts me before our first date, is it okay for me to ask out another woman?

Days ago, I met a woman at the mall and asked her out and she said yes. She gave me her number. So I texted her about my date idea, days later, and she texted back acting confused and she won't respond to my further texts...

Asiancel

Xper 1 Age: 31

Should I break up with him or am I overreacting?

My boyfriend leaves on long trips that he says will last a 3 weeks but goes on for months. When first started dated 5 months into the relationship he said he'd be leaving for a 3 week trip , a month cane asked when he'd...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I acendently invited two guys to my dance? What do I do and who should I take?

I asked the first guy Tommy on Monday. Tommy is a freshman and I am a junior so we are going as friends. I texted and He said I'll have to see. He did not respond for 24 hours so two days after I texted him and said...

CAPLOVE

Xper 5 Age: 19

AITA For Leaving My wife Stranded In Another State For Cheating? ?

Went on a vacation with my wife of 5 years down to Tennessee from Michigan. My wife grew up in Tennessee until her family moved up to Michigan when she was 12. It was a big reason I had a crush on her, I thought her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He is still emotionally distant and is not initiating contact since our first big fight 4 weeks ago. What should I do?

We had our first big fight four weeks ago. He told me why he was upset, and I have apologised for my part in the fight. He is now responding to my texts, and will reluctantly return my calls. But he won’t initiate contact...

Thaleia

Xper 5 Age: 38

I think a woman tried to catfish me on OKCupid using photos of another real local woman? Should I identify the real person & let her know?

So here is the timeline of events: I comment on a OKC girl’s profile. She responds and we start a conversation. I give her the my phone number and she texts me from a local number I notice a day later her OKC profile goes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Although Breaking Up on Your own End with an Ex, Should YOU have a Right to Be upset Over Something Like This That Happened?

**I Broke IT OFF Back in 2022 with My LDR Four Year Partner. We have Corresponded for the Past Year, But Times, It can be Volatile and so Forth. But there is still Love There. He sent Me a Pix of the New Speakers on the...

Paris13

Influencer Age: 42

Religion & Spirituality

Is self-love a sin after all?

I'm very confused lately. I am christian, I do believe in God but I have moments when I'm in doubt. Nowadays everyone promotes self-love and how we shouldn't settle for relationships with people that are so called toxic....

Anonymous

(30-35)