Three dates after our second date, this girl's behavior suddenly changed. Now, we talk and text much less and I have become the one who always call and message first. Before that, she used to initiate conversations too. What baffles me is that she really seemed to enjoy our second date. She told me once that she has been busy. I still feel no matter how busy she is , she still could send me a good night message at night. Anyway, on Friday, I asked her out on a third date. She said yes. Until our date on Friday, should I wait for her to text or call me to finalize the time for the date?
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3 mo
Three DAYAS after our second date ( NOT THREE DATES). Sorry for the typo..
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3 mo
Three DAYS after our second date ( NOT THREE DATES). Sorry for the typo..
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Hmm that is kinda weird man. If she was totally into it before and things have slowed down a lot, I'd maybe back off a little bit too. Like maybe just wait and see if she reaches out at all before your date.
Girls can be hard to read sometimes. She said yes to the date so that's good, but like you said even if busy she could shoot you a quick text. I'd say don't double or triple text her now, just play it cool. If she doesn't message you at all before Friday then on Thursday you could send one more thing being like "hey wanna lock in those plans for tomorrow?"
But aside from that I wouldn't keep blowing her phone up. Maybe she's losing interest or just super busy, but either way you don't wanna seem desperate. Let her put in some effort too if she's really feeling it. That'll give you a better idea of what's up, and you ain't wasting your time. Hope it works out bro!
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Guess it depends on how much you really like her! If you think she is worth pursuing then keep calling.
Yes, I think that's fine. But if that keeps happening then mention it to her.