I had been planning a date with girl since last week. She was really excited about it but when I texted yesterday morning she responded saying she had to cancel because she unexpectedly got called into work.
I do know about her work and it’s very possible that really happened. I acted like it was no big deal and said it was understandable. I told her if she got off early she should text me up. She said she would “definitely” let me know by tomorrow afternoon but I haven’t heard from her since.
I am about 50% convinced she “found a better deal” and put me on the back burner. But she was very excited the entire week about meeting up.
Anyway my game plan is radio silence now. It would of been one thing if she texted me back yesterday afternoon but she didn’t. No text from her today either. I am not going to reach out to her again. Ball is in her court.
But even if she does reach out a part me is no longer excited about meeting up now given I am her number 2. I did a lot of planning/prep for the date. Her canceling was a huge disappointment. I also know for a fact I never said anything stupid or creepy when we texted earlier She brought up sexual stuff first and I was careful not to indulge it.
But how can I tell if she legitimately had to cancel or she made up some bs excuse just because she found a better deal? If it’s the former I’m totally fine to reschedule. But if it’s the latter I want nothing to do with that crap.
I hate to admit this but it’s not like I got a ton of options given my location and what’s going on in my life. She was one of the better options I came across. At worst she won’t respond to me if I texted her.
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I don't really know what happened, but If I was in your place , I would wait for more signals to appear.
I do not know either. Like to give her the benefit of the doubt but I’ve been around the block a few times and I’ve seen this crap before.
I’m going to wait for her to text me back. It’s on her now to put effort into if she wants something to happen.
But if her number one didn’t work out and she sees me as a “backup” I want nothing to do with that crap. Zero.
I understand you.
No, give her another chance and then think about cutting her off for good.
Let’s see if she ever follows up. Haven’t heard from her since.
I want to believe she got slammed at work (she works for a family company). But I know better to be naive.
Good luck.