**I Broke IT OFF Back in 2022 with My LDR Four Year Partner. We have Corresponded for the Past Year, But Times, It can be Volatile and so Forth. But there is still Love There. He sent Me a Pix of the New Speakers on the Entertainment Center He Had Built (I Have Seen this in the past) and Yes, He still Has All of Cards and Pix and Knick Knacks I Gave to Him. However, I Suddenly SAW a Pix (Like from a Copy He had made) Of the Girl He THOUGHT was Real on FB, Who Had sent Him a Pix of Herself. I Always Though this was a Scammer But He never Believed me. She went OFF OF His FB Friend List when She realized (He or She) That I was Back on with Him and on Scammers Groups I Belong To. I am a Bit Upset in Seeing this Pix. Do I Have a Right to Be Mad and Call him Down on it? He tried to "Gaslight" Me at First... Any Thoughts? xx
I don't understand why people get into these types of relationships. You would probably see a person more often if they were in prison. I can't see many of them being successful in the end. There are just too many factors out of your control. I sometimes wonder if half of them are already in relationships and just looking for some side action. How would you possibly know? "Hey babe, want to go to a movie tonight?" - "Sure, tell me what video you will be watching and I'll watch it with you. Also tell me what time because we have a 4 hour time difference."
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I don’t know why you would be upset, you guys gotta move on too! However, he seems to be pulling your strings.
You always have a right to be upset, even if later you realize there was no reason to be upset.
I kind of got lost in your post, but if I get it, the picture of the person you thought it was, that you got upset about, was actually his niece?
This is one of the problems with LDRs. Maybe it's time to find someone local?
Seems like he’s stringing you along, backburning, side pimping…. etc.
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'We have Corresponded for the Past Year...'
Until people learn how to make a completely clean break, they will continue bringing all kinds of problems into their life. One day you will be shown all of the opportunities, life changing experiences and peace that you missed just by continuing something that should have been ended in all ways.
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This is confusing to me anyway you guys need to go to Denny’s and enjoy some sweet French toast that will fix your problems. Then you can feel comfortable about talking it out over there. With a lovely order of sweet French toast from your favorite restaurant in the world Dennys
Pulling the trigger on a relationship hurts just the same as the one who relieves the breakup.
Unless of course it's mutual.
You broke it off back in 2022 so why are you still upset over him? You need to tey and move on from him but won't as long as you two keep in contact. You need to learn to block him and not respond to him. You said at times it can get volatile which means it is toxic. Try not to worry about the knick knacks and others things that you gave him and try to move on. From the day of you posting this it has been 1 year 6 days to 2 years 5 days depending on when you broke it off in 2022. You are best to move on without him.
I guess you’re still friends so that’s why you are upset and you have had to deal with scammers like me too so you are suspicious of everything these days
1st mistake was getting into a ldr for 4 years. Time to move on with your life and he his.
Oof Paris, seems like it's best to just call it a day here.. Or just get back together and move with one another..
If don't think so. Could be worse, I contacted my ex two months after we broke up and found out that I had gotten her pregnant and she had a miscarriage. I was really sad about that for a while.
You always have a right to be upset whether it's objectively justified or not.
You know four years is a lot of memories, both good and bad. It is harder to forget the bad one than the good ones. Maybe that is why breakups are so difficult. The one breaking up remembers the bad times and the one being broken up with remembers the good times….
If you aren't together anymore you have no right to be upset over what he did afterwards.
Paris, you need to move on from this.
Why do you belong to scammer groups?
Move on to someone else
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