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I understand that women get more matches, more easily on Tinder and because of biology it makes sense. I find 2 things frustrating about dating apps in general. The first is that very few women ever put any actual work into making a bio or really any effort at all, why is that? Not all guys are just super thirsty looking to hookup, finding out things you may like about the person shouldn't be left until after a match which brings me to my next frustration. I find it's always me putting the effort in to respond to messages timely or respectfully. If I don't message them and say good morning I don't hear from them, and this isn't only the first few messages, it's even after there's somewhat of a repoire built up texting off the app. It constantly feels like they don't actually want to be talking to me and I'm just supposed to be chasing them all the time which is emotionally frustrating to say the least. I'd like to hear from other guys to see if they experience this aswell and also from women to hopefully provide some insight as to why this is. I'm not saying it's not something I'm doing wrong but conversation is one of my strengths and I never fail to create interesting discussions. I'm very respectful and not creepy so I dont get it. I just can't for the life of me figure out what I could be doing wrong, is that just the way the world works now? I'm recently out of a 10 year marriage and am new to dating again. Thanks!

I’ve been talking to multiple girls and as soon as I got single they all came flocking. Some even saying I’m so tall and look like a model after I got done screwing them.. My friend who is really smart has a crush on some girls and I’ve tried asking if they would ever date him. They said absolutely not. He just isn’t attractive and they can’t picture themselves being intimate with them at all. They said he would be a great marriage couple, someone who has a career and money and depend upon, but never attracted to. I asked what could he do to be more attractive? He would have to start dressing and grooming himself like me. Which is basically business casual, clean cut, smelling good. Just an overall complete shift in clothing and maybe even personality.