Why am I easily affected?

Anonymous

This guy and I took this short course online and assuming we were just friends, I agreed to meet him in person - however I soon noticed that he was slightly into me but he still told me that he was "kinda dating" another girl (Mia). Surprisingly, he still asked if he could be introduced to my family and if there's potential for my family to approve of him for marriage! He then told me that he was moving to another state, and he asked if I'd consider moving somewhere closer so we could meet up often.

In all of this, I found his honesty quite appealing and I felt I could share everything including my insecurities with him. After hours of talking, I felt so close to him. However, at one point, he realised we had drastically religious viewpoints and he decided to call it quits - and told me that he'd stick to Mia instead.

Tbh, I was so confused on how he even proceeded to talk about marriage with me without trying to get to know me better. I'm even more confused on why I was even falling for this guy, so much so that seeing him with Mia makes me upset. I initially just thought of him as a friend before the first date.

Why am I easily affected?
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