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Search Results: being avoided
Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend
Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...
How to stop being weird?
People often think of me as weird or creepy, I guess you could say, so they avoid me because I'm awkward. How do I stop this from progressing onto my adulthood?
Anonymous
(25-29) What am I supposed to say when someone asks what I’m looking for in a man?
I mostly get asked this by men. I feel like I’m lying because men believe whatever a woman says they think she’s lying. It’s why I dodge the question or just say I plan to be single. That seems to help and avoid being...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Why is this guy unnecessarily rude to me?
So there's this guy that’s a bit of a character. He’s those types that says out of pocket shit all the time. Most girls find him insufferable and weird. I’m one of those girls. The only difference is that he treats me...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I stop feeling like this?
So I’m considered “very attractive” (I put quotations because I don’t like referring to myself as that it feels too cocky) but I’m having this problem where I respond really negatively to people who get very shy / awkward...
Anonymous
(25-29) I need advice on these emotions I’m feeling post break up?
I was in a relationship with my ex for four years. I wasn’t perfect in anyway I definitely had my fair share of issues. The only difference between me and him was that I took accountability for my issues, and I tried my...
Cass510
Xper 5 Age: 29 Help on this girl I like?
like this really nice girl, were in a situationship for 5 months , she expected id say something , didn't ( regret to this day ) she then started dating another guy , i being smart started avoiding her but like everytime...
syphus
Xper 1 Age: 20 Am I in the wrong for trying to be grown up in 30 years old and he’s only 15?
Hey I need some advice so o have a brother who’s only 15 and I’m 30 so I been past his age and I know what it is like to be a teenager but when I was his age we had rules in the house. Like if I was rude or even spoke out...
ZainabAli123
Xper 5 Age: 32 When a girl starts to lose interest, do you cut her off or speak to her about it?
When a girl begins to lose interest in you, do you choose to cut her off abruptly, gradually withdraw, or have a conversation with her about it? Perhaps ask her directly if she's losing interest or if there's someone...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would a girl always suggest things to do together in the future even if she didn't mean it?
I'm in a situationship. Been talking to this girl for over a month. We see each other every week, and just saw her last night. During our time together, she kept talking about things we should do together in the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does my guy friend avoid me after making flirty jokes?
My guy friend has always been a bit flirty with me but lately more than ever. He send me a gif with an enamoured duck and told me he needed more of me which I commented was cringe. He kept flirting for a bit until I shut...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it wrong to avoid relationships due to heart-break?
I won't go into full details because it's too much explaining. But he was my VERY first boyfriend that's basically been a one-sided relationship where I was investing time, feelings and love for him while it was NEVER...
Cherrylicious
Yoda Age: 34 Why do men avoid me if I'm attractive?
I get compliments for my looks occasionally but men don't act overly nice with me and oftentimes avoid talking to me. The same men would flirt around and be very kind to other women. Am I being lied to and in fact...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you think of the financial trap of being single?
Now that my 20s are over, I just can’t help but notice how all of my friends have partnered up and grew in financial stability and prosperity. It’s made me worried and admittedly bitter. I feel like the majority of people...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is really fair that some women demand softer verbal treatment from men despite knowing the man is NOT a physical threat?
When it comes to verbal interactions men and women are on even ground. We both have two ears, one mouth and one brain. Men do not have any special advantage over women in a verbal arguments. An no speech is not violence...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, are you fine with girls you're not attracted to being touchy-feely?
Like if a female friend strokes your face, chest, arm, sits really close to you, etc, because she's attracted to you. Would you let her do that, or would you start trying to avoid her (as you're not attracted to her)?
Does he have a crush on me and avoid me purposely?
About two and a half weeks ago, I liked this guy's Instagram post. After that, he followed me on Instagram and I followed him back. After we followed each other, he liked two of my Instagram posts (one of me and one of a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Have you ever lost interest in the type of people you used to like before?
At the age of 22, my 23 year old boyfriend was the OLDEST man I’ve ever been very attracted to. I always liked them 1-2 year younger than me and my boyfriend was always jealous when I was around men my age or younger....
Can trust issues be a good reason to avoid relationships?
I've only been in one "serious" relationship when I lost my virginity to him at 26. We met online through a dating site (in 2013) and kind of hit it off but I wasn't expecting anything serious being that it was long...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does it sound like these men are into me?
I live in NYC, one of the unfriendliest places in the world. Strangers here usually never make eye contact and only greet those who they are familiar with. I rarely ever get anyone approaching me and asking for my number....
Anonymous
(25-29) 