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Search Results: getting hurt
I dont want to be used but dont want to lose him completely... any idea what to do?
I've known my best friend for 5 years. His family is more like family then my own. Been friends through several relationships. I haven't been in a relationship for 4 years. They have always ended horribly, and 2 of which...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I find a husband now that I've ruined my reputation?
I was really hurt by my ex in the past and ended up having a "hoe" phase. It was rarely anything physical. I am still a virgin. I wanted them to love me but they never did. I ended up sending nudes after nudes. I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) This is an age-old question, but how do you get trust back? Is it even possible?
I've been hurt and traumatised by the past and past relationships which made my trust fizzle out and disappear. I know getting my trust back would solve like...90% of my problems, but I've no idea how to go about it....
ToriitheGoblin
Xper 3 Age: 24 Guys is he pulling away? did the interest fade out?
So... met this dude online, been 5 months & we finally clicked last week... I don't know what happened to me, but I became flirty to the point that he would say "making me blush here" ... and then flirt back & sometimes...
Anonymous
(30-35) What does it mean when a close guy friend ask for a break for 2 months? is it over?
So basically, My guy friend and I had a fight that actually lasted for two weeks and some days it actually started off small but then got worse with time. it's the first time of us having a problem also it getting to this...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this an avoidant attachment?
So, I have been talking to this guy for 9 months now, we have only hung out a few times in person because it’s long distance. I like to think we have a really great bond and we get along so well, we have never argued,...
ToxicoLuluz
Xper 3 Age: 32 Just shy of third base but no feelings?
Been seeing this girl for like 3 months. On Monday, we kissed for the first time. It was amazing and still feels a little unreal. We made out for a couple hours while cuddling, and she was SO into it. If we both weren't...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is your opinion?
So there is a guy in my neighborhood that we rent the same apartment units. First, I noticed that whenever his friends see me they would always tell me hi like even if i would be walking with my friends they would always...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it possible to date someone long distance that we met on vacation?
So I went to Azores with a friend to a hostel and I met a guy there. We bonded really quickly and while playing a game one night he said that he didn't want a serious relationship because rn he's travelling a lot. That...
MairimBP
Xper 3 Age: 23 How do you tell your significant other what they’re doing wrong & bothers you, without them getting upset or annoyed with you in the process?
Has anyone cracked the code on this yet? I know that this is a big problem for many because tons of people can't take being told these things. It's embarrassing to them; it hurts their pride. Oh, they might be OK with...
ThaMaskedMarvel
Xper 5 Age: 110 The Day I Was (Almost) Struck By Lightning
A few years back, I worked at a Children's Museum as a manager. We had this huge outdoor water area with a lot of metal parts and high trees, things that lightning tends to get along with very well. Our protocol was that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why has my husband changed so much and no longer loves me?
For a while my husband has been giving methe silent treatment he would reject me on sex. Not so long ago I found out he is having an affair with his 20 year old secretary. I read his text while his was taking shower I ask...
Anonymous
(30-35) Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend
Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...
Should I cut off a long time friend for the way she is acting or try to be understanding?
Alright, I’ll start off with how me and this friend of mine (let’s call her Mimi) have been friends for almost 10 years. I started college late, and she and another friend of mine (let’s call her Luna) introduced me to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Sometime I get visions, what to do?
sometimes i get visions about future and i learned to act by it. my last vision was about getting killed by a someone in a car accident. and after a day i met her. i seduced her and became her boyfriend and impregnated...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Kaizen Way, AKA the method of making changes in baby steps. How can it change your life for the better?
The whole baby steps thing is all about how our minds are basically allergic to change. For our emotional brain, any change is like a red flag for potential failure, a threat to our cozy comfort zone, and a giant...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What does it mean when a guy sends you a pic of himself?
He literally texted me this after 4 days of having left me on read- "Look what literally jumped into my window on my way home !" He wasn't smiling & had a dog next to him. To put more in context- he's been...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I still have fun even though I don’t like her?
I work with this one girl who I don’t hate but I’m really not a huge fan of her. She’s very pessimistic and I’m very very close to another girl there my age. This rude coworker is a year and a half older than me and my...
Anonymous
(25-29) I need advice on these emotions I’m feeling post break up?
I was in a relationship with my ex for four years. I wasn’t perfect in anyway I definitely had my fair share of issues. The only difference between me and him was that I took accountability for my issues, and I tried my...
Cass510
Xper 5 Age: 29 Do you believe that God fights behind the scenes to protect the world?
In history, there are multiple people who wanted to destroy the world and they were all defeated. Like the nuclear / hydrogen bomb that allowed the Americans and the Jews to defeat Hitler in the war. Even in my own life...
