Search Results: good intentions

I want to know if you've been intentional about this: either hiding or making yourself look worse purposely in front of someone you find attractive. This could either be in person or online.

I know people are usually trying to show their best sides because most of us are not even that good looking or don't believe in our looks enough, but I was just curious.

I don't mean completely hiding obviously. Maybe like showing your worst pictures, wearing ugly clothes or makeup or something like that.

Quick Story Time Example:
On hinge, an online dating app, I saw this girl who I thought looked pretty, but I somehow found her on social media, and she definitely didn't use her good pictures, and to me, it was clear as day. I don't know if it's because she's genuinely unaware that these pictures are bad or if she was having one of the intentions I mentioned.
Please feel free to chime in on this example if you'd like to.

If we're standing I usually place my hand on their lower back while talking, and slowly pull them towards me
If we're sitting I put my hand on their leg, if we are next to each other I put in her inner thigh (not way too far to get closer to other things, but just enough to make my intentions clear.

I've never been one to flirt a lot, but sometimes I do these things and then stop because I loose my confidence, if a girl let's me put my hand in this ways is it a good sign? or is it just a regular thing and they could no get my intentions clear?