Tell him you need space.
He's confused but if he broke up he probably has a very decent reason for it and truly believes you aren't right for each other romantically. He also still truly loves you so he can't help but miss and treat you like you're still dating even though he knows that isn't what he wants.
I know it might be hard on you both but if you want to remain friends ask him for space, like no contact for 1/2 weeks... I'd say you need more time but that's a starting point to know where you both stand
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Obviously, you didn't want to break up, and now he is acting pretty much the same? No, that's not how it works. First of all, the reasons he gave for ending the relationship are complete bullshit. 'Hurt you to the point of hurting him' wtf does that even mean? I know you want to believe he didn't mean it, and he will snap out of it and want to be together but it's too late for that. There is no being 'friends' with an ex, that is also complete bullshit.
I don't think y'all can be friends at that point tbh, I wouldn't.
I get the, "if you love someone let them go, and if they comes back then it was meant to be" but for him to tell you to go find someone else, then have the audacity to act like y'all are together, is toxic; he doesn't know what he wants, definitely get space, maybe you should find someone better.
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