Search Results: how to tell he wants a relationship

An old crush of mine says she doesn't like her boyfriend. Obviously I wouldn't swoop in immediately IF they did break up, but should I wait it out?

We recently hung out for the first time since highschool (only 3 years ago) and she asked me about my love life before I could. I was kinda hopeful but she said she was with the same guy since highschool. Throughout our...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why does this always happen to me?

It's like all the decent men are taken, the men I end up with are utterly disrespectful and want me to be their parent, and the people who chase me the most are old men. Every time I fall forwards a guy, I invest in...

L_Lawliet17

Xper 4 Age: 23

Can any guys help me on this situation?

I met this guy from a dating site back in 2023. We talked for awhile online 1st before meeting up & we had one great date. After that he messaged saying our started relationship but I told him we should get to know each...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why does he miss me but avoids seeing me?

I’ve been involved with a guy (he was my first kiss years ago) and we’ve had a deep emotional connection. He has told me he misses me, says he’s broken, has issues with trust and commitment, and has mentioned that he’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why do women get mad when I say "men shouldn't coddle women in relationships?

Women have told me, they feel like coddling is controlling. Corny or annoying is also wordz they use to describe it. But other women, want to label it "entitled" and " without being honest about the true criticism also...

WilliamPamer446

Xper 7 Age: 25

Why is he so upset at me?

My boyfriend has trust issues. He founded out that I reached out to his bff to get advice on myself for him and he’s now mad because I didn’t tell him I reached out. But I didn’t want him to know because it was advice for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When would you be ok hearing about your partner's CSA?

I'm in school for marriage & family therapy & wanted to get everyone's thoughts about when you'd want to know if your partner went through childhood sexual abuse (csa). How soon is too soon? How would you want to be told...

Hope87

Xper 1 Age: 39

Why would a guy that says he wants to be just friends ignore me when I finally am ready to be just friends with him?

Last week, I went over to a guy (we're also coworkers that work on different shifts) who I ocassionally hang out with 's house. He has previously expressed interest in me for quite a few months even last year, but I had a...

Ccmama

Xper 6 Age: 28

Ex talking stage upset at me?

Me and this guy talked for a few months before I ended it because he told me he wasn’t ‘looking for anything serious’. Months go by and he’s interested in a relationship with me, which I turnt down. No hard feelings. Now,...

avony12

Xper 7 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Will she come back again?

I had a relationship about 1 year and 3 months. But it was a toxic relationship. We broke up many times and came back together after several days for many many times. But ı was the one who tried to be together and the one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What do you do in the process of separation?

Husband is very manipulative, demeaning, a cheater, and a non-present father. I've tried to leave before but always somehow find myself forgiving and getting roped back in. This time I'm determined for it to be different....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Im not sure where to turn? I need help please.. ?

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together going on 4 years and its been a little crazy. He is 51 now and im 29.. well i mean we have our own kids from previous relationships and he got fixed before i was even born...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this attachment or love?

My ex and I broke up 9 months ago after dating for 4 months, we're both the same age, and we were 17, currently 18. I was the one to break up with him for personal reasons, and I blocked him on all platforms. I unblocked...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How can I deal with my jealous feelings?

My boyfriend is on a trip for a class and he is sleeping in a cabin room with 3 other women for a few nights. They are in the same room because they’re working in the same group. I have always had problems with feeling...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What am I supposed to do?

i'm texting this really cute guy and he's shown great interest in me, after 3 days of talking he asks me to be his girlfriend, i say no telling him to wait a little because well we don't know eachother, he says alright....

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Break Up & Divorce

So I ran into my ex and now I'm having dumb thoughts?

Okay hear me out, hear me out. So we broke up two years because I felt like I wasn't having my emotional needs met, it was first relationship , well my first everything and I felt like I was bending backwards and he was...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do people want people to meet random people or even online instead of people you know and genuinely are attracted to?

Can it be a risk? Yeah absolutely but higher risk higher reward. Especially if you know someone really well and have built a genuine attraction some people tell people to go find their soulmate meeting random people at...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30