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Search Results: pursuing him
Is it weird for 23 (m) to pursue women in the late 20s&early 30s?
Looking for ops?
Anonymous
(25-29) What just happened?
This guy and I have been friends for years. Towards the last 2 years he got super flirty. I didn't want to cross that threshold but he kept on pushing it. I gave in regrettably. We sexted a few times but always went back...
Anonymous
(25-29) I recently apologized to the guy I've taken for granted 2 years ago, and he apologized back and we chatted, does that mean I have a 2nd chance?
He was pursuing me before but I doubted his sincerity that's why I self-sabotaged and accused him of being insincere.
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a man stay friends with an ex and say she’s like a family but no longer date her?
All his friends know her, his family knows her, but they only dated for a few months many years ago until they decided to stay friends instead because they’d make better friends than romantic partners. He said he needed a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Hanging out as friends?
Not sure how to interpret this but I’ve been good friends with this guy for some time now and we hang out once in a blue moon. Him and I are attracted towards each other. One night we’re watching a movie and I catch him...
nicole_rodriguez00
Xper 1 Age: 26 Confusing response- trying to make sense?
Background- She expressed interest early on (put her number into my phone, made advances, always responsive), I was an ass and scared, and didn't pursue. No physical interaction. She's attractive, and confident and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should you never date a guy you pity?
I tend to pity date and be pity friends with guys who pursue me ugh so stupid of me because usually they end up abusing me. Yup. I’m nice and they end up abusing me. so never date a guy you pity for his height looks money...
Stsyinside
Xper 1 Age: 38 I realized that Love is really blind… F/24 M/26. can I vent?
I was with my ex for a year and some changes occurred during that time. He was homeless, had no job, and told me a sad story. We had deep conversations about how he is trying to find a job (he never did ), and I, being so...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is now just not a good time to apply for tech roles?
I am a mid-to-senior-level web application developer. I am struggling to land a new role, despite a total of 3.8 years of professional/employed experience in the industry and working on apps for multi-billion dollar...
ForevrLonely29
Xper 5 Age: 31 Why is my friends with benefits unable to let go of our situation?
I’m no longer interested in continuing things with him because I found someone that I’d like to pursue things with. I made it clear that I am done and I don’t want the distraction of this situation. I’ve blocked him on...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Invite back to his place does he want sex?
Matched a guy on-line 7 days ago. We met up on 7th day. Within 10 mins of our meet up he tried to tongue kiss me in the coffee shop. I declined. We went to his car after talking and we did kiss briefly maybe 45 mins...
Unrealiseddream
Xper 4 Age: 40 Church women, how do you like to be approached? If you reject a guy is it okay for him to talk to other women at the same church?
I just officially became a member of a new church I started attending 3 months ago. I notice that this church has quite a few attractive single ladies. A couple have waved or smiled at me from across the sanctuary. One in...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I stick around and pursue something with this man or just leave and move on?
This guy and I are both single parents, and we have been talking for awhile. He says he has feelings for me and I have feelings for him. We connect so well and have a lot of fun together. With what I am about to say, I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I pursue?
I have a long term (male) friend who I’ve known since I was 12 and he was 11. I am now 24, going through a divorce after 6 months of marriage and he is now 23 with a child (not even 5 years). Personally that’s not a...
Myah99Baby
Xper 1 Age: 26 Girls, Could I go into male modeling?
So I'm trying to pursue obtaining a CDL class a license so that I can become a truck driver, but when I was talking to this cashier at the store the other day about career choices and she told me I should look into...
superchan2011
Xper 6 Age: 34 How come a guy says sweet things but doesn't take actions?
I recently dated a guy from Germany, and his behavior was a bit weird.. so I want to know what people think. Although I'm from Asia, we had many things in common and hit it off. We went on two dates and everything was...
Anonymous
(36-45) If you’re someone who isn’t interested in pursuing marriage, what would it take to change your mind about marriage?
If you’re someone who isn’t interested in pursuing marriage?
TatteredAngel
Xper 1 Age: 41 Opinions on George Russell's 1953 work, The Lydian Chromatic Concept of Tonal Organization?
As a self-taught student of Western music theory, I've formulated my own ideas, regarding the Lydian musical scale as being the most natural musical scale, as opposed to the generally accepted idea of the Ionian scale...
nolabels
Guru Age: 67 Is it easier to date in a city than in a small town?
I’ve noticed a pattern with my friends who have never left her hometown. I think she’s a cute girl but she straight up asked me if she was ugly because guys were treating her bad. I’ve personally never dated anyone from...
emilyis_
Xper 1 Age: 30 Do you believe a person without traditional talents or assets can become elite?
I know more than one person in my family that thought I’d be a dish washer or janitor in my older years cause I got Bs in some of my high school classes and 99.999% of their friends were STEM professors or Doctorates. I...
