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So my long distance boyfriend doesn’t call me too often, he will occasionally but i would like if he did it more. When i ask him if he’d be down to call he says he has class early and wants to get some sleep, which i understand i would just like him to set a date and time to call me.

I’ve brought this up with him and he says he’s really not that into phone calls in general and i understand this as well but being in an ldr i would like it if he gave it a bit more importance because it’s important to me.

We text every single day and we have really long conversations they’re not dry at all but i would like it if we could have maybe a weekly phone call or something like that.

is his lack of enthusiasm to call him becoming uninterested in me or is it simply because he’s gotten more comfortable and doesn’t see it as a necessity?

If you ask a girl out on a date and she refuses for a long time and you keep insisting until finally she says yes, you take her to a restaurant but when it comes time to order, you order a cheesecake.

you invited her to a dinner date but you order a cheesecake? Does this mean something?

of course after he ordered a cheese cake I felt weird ordering an actual plate so I ordered a cheesecake as well lol. Wtf? I was kind of happy I didn’t order first that would have been too awkward.

p. s. I had never been on a first date ever so I don't know if people on first dates are scared to eat real food or if this has a different meaning like he insisted so much but wants to end the date as soon as it starts because cheesecake will be served almost instantly and finish it just as fast?

My fiancé asked me to cook his grandma something in particular for her dinner at 5 PM. Agreeing I said OK and proceed to set an alarm 30 minutes before 5 PM. Not hearing my alarm go off I woke up out of my sleep and woke up hour and a half later. I rushed downstairs to find his grandma and ask if she needed anything or wanted anything. She proceeds to say no and then she didn’t know what she wanted to eat and before I could ask her where this particular food item was, she was already out the door I even looked high and low. A few hours later my fiancé text me stating he asked me to do one thing and basically that he won’t ask me to do anything else.

I apologized immediately because again I understand if he feel like I let him down but on the flipside, don’t make it as if I don’t ever make sacrifices or help when it comes to her when I’ve literally helped him physically carry her inside the house once before. I’m not someone who throws up what they do for people in their face. But you will not sit here and make it seem like I’m not reliable when I’m more reliable than your actual family.

But yet he’s been a disappointment in the relationship. I’ve been promised dates. I’ve been promised get weekend getaways and I haven’t gotten that yet. So he may feel like I let him down in this one situation but I’ve been let down for months now.