2 mo

Girl upset cuz I don’t want to commit to her. It’s only been a month or so. I want to keep dating but she doesn’t want to unless it’s serious?

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To be fair the last month we’ve seen each other a lot. Maybe 2-3 times a week depending on our schedules. We’ve been on many dates and she’s come to my house for dinner many times as well. I care for a her a lot, and she’s very attracted to me both physically and mentally. I definitely have been treating her like we’re in a relationship, which is my fault. But just who I am as a person. If I care for you I will go head over heels for you. The problem is that it’s only been a month or so and I don’t want to be committed yet, unlike her. She’s amazing, but when I go out at night the feelings of temptation come up with other girls who are flirty. If I was in a committed relationship I wouldn’t do this. It’s just against my morals. But if I’m not officially with her or we’re not exclusive I don’t feel the burden. Maybe in another month or so things could change. She’s telling me in some texts she wants me, and doesn’t know what else I need from her. And other to take my time, but I know she’s annoyed. What should I say to ask for more time?
Girl upset cuz I don’t want to commit to her. It’s only been a month or so. I want to keep dating but she doesn’t want to unless it’s serious?
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