Dating
3 mo

What are some ideas that BOTH men and women can agree that would be better relationships in a challenging society?

It seems like everything is always one sided with these ideas. However I think these rules could benefit both genders:

  • Whoever asks for a date should pay for it. It’s that simple.
  • No one should get “offended” if one person politely says they want to make out, have sex, etc. despite the other person not being in the mood. We need better communication nowadays but a lot of people get hypocritically upset when asked questions like this. It makes people hesitant to speak up.
  • If you are not interested in someone just politely tell them “thank you but I am not interested”. No additional details necessary. This makes the person doing the rejection a decent person (because they are not ghosting). The person who is being rejected needs to take it in stride, appreciate the honesty and move on.
  • Many mistakes can be forgiven but the offended person needs to speak up about what the other person is doing/saying. Most people will stop whatever they are doing wrong once they know the other person doesn’t like it. But many people expect the other person to read their minds on this.
  • If a member of the opposite sex approaches you just accept there is a 95%+ chance they are interested. They could be slightly curious or have a huge crush. But as long as they are polite then just accept that reality.
What are some ideas that BOTH men and women can agree that would be better relationships in a challenging society?
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