My boyfriend and i we ve been dating for two years now... we used to go on dates and we make out normally.. we been through ups and downs and we thought it will be over everytime we fought but we usually go back.. lately he s been busy with his work we barely meet and whenever we talk i find myself rememberin everytime he said mean things to me.. we meet once or twice a week unlike before and we barely even talk.. last date it was all good until he was saying he likes me but wished i was thiner its his first time.. i felt upsate and started going on a date.. but yet he always says not enough and whenever i feel upset he says he likes me for who i am.. we were making out my dad called felt guilty i started crying he didn't give a fuck and started yelling.. several times we were making out i had less desire than he has and always asked him we should go back home.. he says he is upset and he didn't finish but respects my choice... he nevet tried to understand what was wrong or even tried to calm me down.. should i break up with him
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I Am confused does this mean I no longer love him or the adverse he no longer loves me?
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We got home after that he texted me out of nowhere saying "i m sorry for everything goodbye" asked him what does he meant to say he said nothing asked him if does that message means we should breakup he said as you like
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What shall i do deep inside i still want him but my brain says no don't do it
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It sounds like a relationship that was doomed to failure if things were that messy at only two years in. Personally I'd say move on, consider what you want and find someone who communicates more.
I think you deserve to be treated like a princess, not how he is treating you, so it is best to break up.
It seems like he is daring your to break up and is betting that you can't do it.
Shall i just do that
I think you need to ask yourself if he's ever going to change and make a decision. I get the impression he will always treat you this way.
I sent him texts to explain what he meant he said nthing.. today supposed to be our anniversary when we met earlier in a cofe we were talking and he said i am sorry for hiding things from u i didn't understand and he said like u have big nose and i didn't tell u he said it as a joke and then he said i remembered in this day the mean things u told me and then he laughed saying i am the best thing ever and on way home i remembered how he told me i was fat so i was mad alway home nd played sad songs he wanted to hold my hand but i didn't do that cuz i was angry and then we made out i was the one who kissed him first then dad called and i felt guilty so i started crying my eyes out and he didn't give a shit he sent me that text after... i told him i remembred every detail and when i askrd u if u wanted us apart you said as u like it all signs that you re over me maybe there s someone else I don't know i told him if is it ok for him to live without me then i have nothing to say and that maybe in first place we were not meant to be maybe we were a mistake as he said that once to me and i told him sending that text was a gaslight maybe he wanted to not feel sorry after what my reaction would be.. he said nothing but "you re right in everything you said i am sorry" so i immidiatly blocked him... Did i do the right thing or i over reacted or what
Don’t break up until you find someone else. Until you find somebody, just use him when you need to get fucked.
Ahahah sad but funny answer
I would say it's a bad idea to corrupt your own soul by behaving like the Jennz's of this world, and quite disgusting too. I notice on this site that the most common answers from females are all toxic slut answers from women who've hit the wall and don't seem to have ever found love, so they'll give bad advice to sabotage other women, particularly younger women...