There was a guy off a dating app, we talked for a few weeks in January and he was very sweet to me. He asked me to go on our first date at an anime convention because he knew I like anime. But we have opposite lifestyle... he does heavy marijuana. I don't want to judge it, but the smell makes me uncomfortable and we kinda ended things respectfully due to lifestyle differences. He continued to comment on most of my Instagram stories... but I never really replied much. Yesterday I kind of did and he flirted about cuddling. So, we hung out, cuddled, and had sex. When we first met and sat down to chat, we naturally hold hands... and I just felt natural with him the whole time before, during, and after sex. We actually ended up doing it three times. I do love his personality. But I felt like he was trying to talk to me like a friend when we were together. I did told him straight out I kinda like him because he's so fun after a couple hours hanging out. He only said thanks, I am really easy to be around, and he has only met me for a couple hours for him to determine his feelings. At the end, I playfully asked if I should get going because it was past midnight, but he kept sayin it's not late since it is a Saturday. He also told me it will be fine if I decided to stay or go. I playfully say I would go but then hold him. When it was near 2am, I said I was going to go. He said I only live like 5 mins away though. I told him it was getting late. Then, he hold me really tight in his arms...
There was a point he asked if I wanna try marijuana, but I declined. We also revisited our lifestyle differences... I felt like he felt judged about it. I did apologize and clarify it was the smell.
Did us holding hands or him holding me tight in his arms when I said I was about to go meant he might be into me even the slightest?
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You had sex, he likes you to some extent; This does not automatically mean he wants a relationship
Why do you say he likes me to some extent?
Yeah, I think we both know the problem is our lifestyle difference since he uses marijuana heavily & I don’t do well with the smell unfortunately..
Would you have sex with someone you don't at least like how they look?
I mean I know he’s physically into me.. he’s always told me he thinks I’m beautiful, very attractive, etc before we met.. and when we met he continue to tell me how pretty I am to him… but I don't know I guess I’d wonder if he was at least still slightly interested
How is physical attraction not interest?
Lol you’re right, it is interest.. but I just didn’t feel like it is romantic interest in me?
Sounds to me like you've cleared the first hurdle, now time to check the next one; Spend some time together, ask for a date. ("Let's get a drink", etc.)
Not at all.
Why do you think he hold me tight when he knew I was about to leave then?
Because he was holding you. There is no big meaning behind it.
Nope
Why do you think he hold me tight when he knew I was about to leave then?
He’s trying to be a nice guy