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It’s my 21 b day tomorrow and I have been literally talking about it for three months now, being one of those annoying people who count it down every day haha. Anyway today I got off work after working three doubles in a row absolutely wrecked but my boyfriend wanted us to go to the gym together. I initially said not but changed my mind last minute bc I knew I wanted to and I didn’t just want to lay around the rest of the day. Anyways we get to the gym and we beach off and do our own stuff, me occasionally checking on him ( 2 times) we go to refill our bottles and he randomly looks at me and says « you are the dullest person here right now » me because apparently me being super worn out but still trying to push through doing legs looked like I was being a drag even tho we weren’t even working out together 😐 being absolutely crushed I go sit in my car and cry while he finishes his workout. After we got home he first tried to defend himself but after I got out of the shower and he saw me crying lol he apologized. I really let it get to me tbh and let it kinda ruin my night. So while he was playing a game around 8 with his brother I texted him and said I wanted him to come lay down with me before it got too late so we could watch a movie and go wake me up if I was asleep because I was absolutely wrecked from work but still wanted to spend time with him and I also wanted him to stay up with me til 12 like a little kid I guess. Anyways he comes in around 10:30 and just lays in bed complaining how he is so tired from work and doesn’t say a single thing after that. I asked him if was upset and he replied « yeah I’m kinda annoyed you keep acting like "play with me talk with me" then tried to say he loved me and falls asleep. I guess I just wanted to know if this is even worth being upset about or I’m being a little (big now) kid hehe

To start off, I'm really uncomfortable talking about this but I need some real opinions or guidance please. And my family here on GAG never lets me down. Soo... My husband seems to be blind to his friends' intentions. I've tried to tell him softly to not anger him or receive backlash but he is not hearing me. His friends are literally courting me in front of him and he just doesn't see it. They have made comments about "getting into our bed", "cooking for me", and "asking me out to new places". They tell my husband how beautiful they think I am and my husband comes back and tells me as if I'm supposed to be flattered.(I'm not a piece of meat so it's not flattering)

Am I going crazy!!! Am I missing something?

Like, they hoover around me like lions stalking their prey and I hate it. They try to control me and make decisions for me even though I don't belong to them.

We're on a friends vacation this week and I made up an excuse that I was sick so I wouldn't have to be around all the alpha energy BUT they're insisting I accompany them to each event.

What Should I Do? Honest Opinions Please 🥺🌹