Search Results: ask a guy out

Guys, Do you think a gal is being difficult just bc she doesn't "register" that you're hitting on her? Was this guy really being so obvious?

At a reception. My young single friend (F33 never married) spots a guy at the bar (M~49?). She casually glances over & gives me the "he's cute" look. I gesture for her to claim the empty seat next to him. She goes all...

Master Age: 52

Flirting

Mixed signals through text but in person very flirty?

So i've known this guy for a bit over a year, we got really close last year, lost contact then was at a tennis event together for 10days recently and hung out almost everyday as well as text everyday and got close again....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is conservative love bombing a red flag?

So the new fella I’m about to see is very into what seems like flattery. Everything is “an honor”. It will be an honor to see me … to sit with me … to hold my paperclips … (Sorry, I’m exaggerating a little, but there are...

Master Age: 52

Society & Politics

Did the police have a right to contact my GP?

So in June last year I was walking down the street with my toddler. It was a hot summer day. I was walking up to my family’s car as we had a trip to the beach The street is normally busy but it was quiet this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I settle for friends with benefits as a serious relationship don’t exist? is a guy I don’t like the right guy?

I never had a serious relationship with, never met family never lived with a guy. I’m 28 and each year my hope gets lower. ill never get married as no one wants be my boyfriend , this means no one desires me no one dreams...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Girls, Would you rather be given a guys number or asked for your number?

Caughtulookin

Xper 5 Age: 35

What's a "hubby vibe"/"wifey vibe"?

A gal asked if I was into a (single, M58/59) guy friend who was doting on both of us today when we stopped into his shop. She says we're giving off "hubby-wifey vibes." That made me laugh. I admit he's a very nice guy --...

Master Age: 52

Is it inappropriate to call a boy "buddy"?

I know a guy who used to be my co worker. I see him at the store with his 7 year old son sometimes. I've met him a couple of times but he's still very shy around me. When I see them, I greet his son, and put my fist out...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Health & Fitness

Is "don't be fat" too much to ask in American dating now?

Obesity is very common now in the U. S. Some regions are more obese than others, but obesity is common wherever you go in America. It's a bit of a mess seeing the rift between confident obese girls on social media...

Adam_INTJ

Xper 7 Age: 26

Not initiating calls anymore?

Met this guy on a serious religious app. He's in a different state. He got my phone number and immediately asked to talk on the phone. We had a good intro convo and he said he hates texting he would rather call. We talked...

champagnemami17

Xper 5 Age: 27

Have you ever met/been with someone no one else compares to them?

I met someone and dealt with him for a year. It’s like we were together, but not really together. AnyWho, There were good times there were bad times. Now that we aren’t bothering with each other for almost months I can’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you forgive him for texting his ex behind your back?

When I first started dating my boyfriend, he had told me he had been cheated on (he caught his ex in their bed w another dude) and was traumatized by it. He had this girl in his phone who kept texting him named Victoria,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Why aren't men supposed to ask if a woman is mad at them or if their relationship is ok?

There seems to be a lot of information online that if a woman starts to pull back, seem distant, etc., that a man asking if she is mad at him or asking if everything is OK with them is supposedly insecure or that a man...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Her ex husband is calling her everytime is this normal? PLEASE advice?

So i'm dating this woman shi is divorced with a daughter, we are having good times and stuff, but i have noticed that her ex husband is calling her, not only this but when she answeres he ask her where are you or what you...

warwolf1304hh

Xper 1 Age: 24

Guys, if a girl was really beautiful and sweet but had an excessive amount of family drama would it scare you away or still pursue her?

I met a guy through an online selling app when he bought a car from my parents. I liked him right away, but he showed up with his child and the child’s mother. He told my dad he was single, while the woman told my mom he...

RoliPoliOli

Xper 1 Age: 24

Relationships

Do You believe he thinks I'm stupid for letting him disrespect me for this long or no?

My boyfriend and I had been on and off for 8 years. I use to let him use my car, I paid for his house etc.. i even went far letting him stay in my home for free around my daughter. Sadly, though, Every time I needed help...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Hobbies & Leisure

How to know if he has moved on?

So guys I just need to ask you something, my boyfriend had an ex girlfriend whom he dated for 5 plus years from high school.. later he broke up etc.. and after 1or 2 years dated me , he mentions that he has moved on and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, You're out on a date... do you focus on enjoying the date or do you keep trying to chip away at the person to find their flaws?

I was on a date (hold the applause) and the guy kept asking questions as if it were a job interview, till finally I chuckled and asked, "Did you find it yet?" He asked, "Found what?" And I said, "The flaw you've...

Influencer Age: 52