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I met a Korean guy (25 m) online, he is a soldier. by the way I'm 22f. We've been talking since the end of January. We also called each other and talked on the phone. He asked me for a body pic once before, but I refused. I said I might consider it once we had a closer relationship. He and I talked on the phone today and I asked him if we could maybe FaceTime afterward. He told me we could do it. He said he had training to go to and then we could do it. He also asked me why I wanted to FaceTime. I told him that we had been texting and talking on the phone and that I wanted to see him while we talked. He then brought the subject to sexuality. He asked if we could talk about it. So I said we could talk as long as we didn't go too far cause i barely know him. He asked me if I had had sex before, if I had a boyfriend, when was the last time, and if I ma**ted. He was very surprised when I told him I was a vi***n. He asked how often I do it. And talk abouit it kind of a few minutes. And then I asked him when was the last time he had a girlfriend. He said he last had a girlfriend 2 years ago. He asked if we could talk about it again later. I said I would think about it. I felt a little uncomfortable with the direction of the conversation. I wanted to move forward with him like a boyfriend. I can say that I'm a little disappointed. Do you think I can have him as a boyfriend? How should I proceed? I live in Istanbul and he is near Seoul. How should I proceed with this?

As of recently, my popularity has dwindled on the dating apps & I’m unsure of the exact cause. Is it my age? As I look the same & I haven’t moved yet things went downhill a few months ago. I mainly use hinge & noticed this drought on all the other apps too, which makes me even more worried considering it seems to be across all platforms. Because of this, I’ve also been second guessing my decision to brush off the guys that previously showed interest in me. At the time I was somewhat interested in a few but either I wasn’t in the mood/doubtful because of negative dating app experiences I dealt with at that time/was too anxious. I question if I genuinely feel regret because this is a delayed reaction or if I’m reminiscing/liking the idea of them since things aren’t going my way at the moment. How can someone be told they’re “attractive” yet quality guys NEVER show them interest in person? If I got attention from these guys from the apps in person, maybe I wouldn’t be as anxious.

29F & I’ve always had this type of deep rooted anxiety when it comes to relationships, I’ve always been a loner & not the friendliest I suppose, to the point where I’m currently content with online/gamer “friends”. There’s this part of me though, that struggles with knowing I’ll never find romantic love. I’m very sure I’m only romantically attracted to men but in a way, I question at times if I really want to be with one long term. Let’s start with: I’m not very affectionate, I don’t trust easily, I get turned off quickly by “innocent” cocky or conceited banter, I’m very antsy about intimacy & not crazy about sex/masturbation to begin with. These might all seem like cop outs because I truly feel the right person will change how I feel about all these “issues”. As a woman I don’t think it’s that rare to not really have much of a sex drive, I keep hearing stories about other women in the same boat that meet their husbands & realize they weren’t “asexual” after all.