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We have been together for 2 years. She is 30 and I'm 34. I had a previous relationship in which I had sex basically twice a day or once a day and it made me feel satisfied. But in my current relationship we only have sex about once a week and it is absolutely been killing me for the past year. I have tried so hard to make it more romantic and watch a movie or go out together, give her all the space she needs and wants. But it just never really got better for longer than a few days.

I’ve tried to talk to her about it but she has such dumb excuses n lies every time. She even used to be an escort. An even bigger red flag 🚩

Even though she doesn’t want sex. She still wants to spend all her time with me. For example, she wants to go everywhere together, and cuddle n kiss each other to sleep every night. She even tells me “I love you” multiple times every hour and wants to be affectionate. She even wants me to text her regularly and keep my Snapchat location on so she can see where I am. She also gets jealous when I speak to other women.

But mostly says no when it comes to sex. I love her but I can't handle this for the rest of my life to be honest. I broke up with her before and she was really sad. I took her back and she was crazy sexually submissive, but again it was only for a few days.

We are on vacation in Chicago at the moment. We came here for her family reunion. When we come home I’m gonna get rid of her permanently. I have therapy appointments already set up to cope with the coming break up. Should I tell her the reason or just let her go?

My girlfriend has been sexually rejecting me for 8 months now. At first I thought we were just having a dry spell and she just needed space.

Recently I organized a summer vacation for us. Again, she was talking really sexual. Saying “where gonna have so much sex”, my vagina will be all yours for 4 weeks, and we’re gonna have sex in car”. We only had 3 times on our trip after begging her for it.

I had so many thoughts of her potentially cheating so I set up a decoy. My buddy rob had sex with her in the past. She doesn’t know that me and rob are friends. So I asked rob to text her and she responded and chatted with him for a bit. At first, she was honest and told me a guy named rob from her past messaged her, but. Now things are getting sour.

Right now at this very moment she’s laying beside me sleeping. And again, she refused sex like always. So I asked rob to call her multiple times, she woke up and kept declining. I asked her “who’s calling?”. She lied and said random number 😬