Search Results: why not be together

Why does this bother him so much?

Ok this is a question for the guys, I have a man I’ve been dealing with (not in a relationship) but that’s the kind of role he plays in my life. He does a lot of what a boyfriend would do for a girlfriend but we aren’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he acting like I did him something?

So long story short, I had a guy at work that liked me, that was very flirty with me sexually right? We have a huge age difference between us so I could never date him, have fun yes. We never did anything just sext that’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he taking his time or am I wasting mine?

This coworker and I have been flirting for many months. It seems to be consistent and slowly but steadily increasing. We joke and tease each other verbally and physically all of the time. He constantly finds ways to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Intimate but now a couch buddy?

What if you have been intimate with someone and the next time they come over they prefer to sleep on the couch after you spent all day together and you even cooked dinner together. Should I take the couch as disinterest?...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Am I asking too much? Am I the problem? Am I not worth the effort? I would never judge anybody on their past experiences?

my boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. He’s in cali I am in PA. We’ve been together for five months and yes, we have had a lot of speed bumps. His ex reached out to me on social city videos of them...

Squirrelwhisperer

Xper 1 Age: 42

Why don't we choose to fix our relationship instead of breaking off?

When some person post here about the issue related to their relationship I see many people simply just telling them to break up. Most of the time. Yeh I know sometimes that's the better option when there could be no...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why dont guys talk to me? What am I missing?

Hi, I am looking for genuine answers by the way! I am a F 18, who lives in a predominantly white area a bit outside city limits. I go to college in the city the last 4 terms, I have noticed during my time in middle, high...

trinibaddie

Xper 4 Age: 19

If a guy friend always asks you to go to the school dance with him every year, would that annoy you?

Every damn year my guy friend would ALWAYS ask me to go to the dance with him ALWAYS. Never any other girls. I could times I rejected him because I wanted to go with other guys. I went with him twice. I was so keen to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do a lot of people assume every divorce ends on bad terms?

My ex wife and I are still on good terms with each other , we both mutually agreed we are better off not being together and better off staying friends for the kids’ sake, our kids are adults now so we decided to part ways...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Can I ask again?

There is a guy that is part of my friend circle that I like. I have asked him to get coffee twice, but he has declined because he already had plans for leaving town for that given weekend. He said that he would be happy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think taking time apart from a troubled relationship is wise to do?

From my experiences in relationships , to me it means the relationship is over , if you can’t fix what is broken together , then taking time apart isn’t going to fix anything , pretty much why I ended it with my ex....

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

I need help with moving forward and my future in the relationship?

Let's start with moving in, me and my boyfriend are still with our parents, bc we are trying to save money as long as we can, well recently my boyfriend has been going through parent issues as in they can't pay there...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it morally okay to live with girlfriend under one roof?

I am dating this girl for 6 month and most of the time we spend time together. But for the past few weeks my girlfriend suggesting to live with her because she cannot tolerate that in night I would go to my own home to...

JasonOrlove

Xper 1 Age: 26

Why would a grown man get a hard on after hugging me?

So we're both 31 years old and have been friends for months. There's never been any signs of attraction from either of us until recently. We usually hang out with other friends but recently hung out together solo. Well we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do people do this?

So I met a girl, and she was going through hard time. So as a nice person, I always there for her. Now it went for days, it came to a point were when we was playing t or d she said she had a crush on me. And I did too....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did he blame me for ruining the relationship, when I wasn’t the one who jokingly flirted with other people?

My ex boyfriend (23m) and I (25F) were together for 2 years, almost 3. Around August of 2023, problems started surging between the both of us. The issues started happening when I saw how he would flirt with a girl and her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Am I the safety guy?

This girl and I know eachother for a long time, we initially met because we were into eachother but that eventually flowed into something I can only define as ‘more than friends’ but we just say we are good friends. Now...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls do that?

A couple of times girls told me how they disliked another girl and the literal next weekend they are posting stories together. Like it’s not a rare thing, it happens every now and then. Do you have to make it seem like...

Anonymous

(18-24)