Search Results: acting on a guy

Guys, what drives a girl to troll others online?

I've seen a lot of toxic online behaviour from females calling each other out as sluts, body shaming, acting as bigots, gold digging, going full Karen, etc. That is not to say that males can't be the same but I am curious...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can I look and dress girly, but still be a tomboy?

I’ve been a bit of a tomboy for years, but I’m not sure if I count as one. My hair is mid-length and I generally only wear graphic tees, graphic crew socks, J-crew chino shorts/Jeans/knee-length jeans, slip-on...

curiousaboutthis

Xper 1 Age: 17

Is toxic femininity/masculinity a lot more harmful to someone of the opposite gender than it is to your own?

Like anyone I’ve seen and experienced both toxic masculinity and femininity from both men and women in my life. But I have far fewer hang ups about other men being assholes vs. dealing with bitchy women who pull toxic...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Have you ever heard of the just world fallacy?

Basically in a nutshell the just world fallacy is the belief that on a universal gradscale bad behavior or bad people are always punished while good behaviour and good people are always rewarded. For instance as an...

Chthou95

Guru Age: 30

Reason she would do that?

There was this bar that I used to hang out at. One night I'm chatting with a bartender who I had pretty much just met (saw her the week before but she was a waitress and didn't talk to her). An hour in she was like we...

mikjones123

Xper 6 Age: 37

Why do guys act so interested about you one day and the very next day, completely distance themselves and behave rudely to you?

this guy, the day before he ghosted me, was acting so nice to me and it felt like he was genuinely showing interest. and then the next day, he barely answers when i text and then don’t talk to you anymore completely

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How do you deal with someone who acts remorseful/apologetic in their behavior but is too proud to actually apologize?

I got a relative that is doing this. I told her straight up years ago I wanted a private conversation. She initially agreed but instead changed her mind. Truth is she’s too afraid to have it because she knows I’m right...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would he suddenly stop replying to me but still interacts with me on social media?

I have a guy friend whom we have been hanging out with each other a lot the past two months but now he “suddenly” got slower at replying to my text messages and i’m generally confused why he would ignore my texts but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I express how I'm feeling or not?

So there's this guy, I really like him, but he's kinda acting hot and cold with me, sometimes he's flirtatious and caring.. that I think yeah he likes me, and some other times he ignores me, or he kinda tries to hurt me,...

curious_gul

Xper 4 Age: 25

How shall I cancel this date with him?

I met this guy and from the get-go, we hit it off. We have been speaking for about three months now. Last week he said that we should go on a date I said that we should but not right now as I am sick. A few days ago I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is he acting weird after our break up?

We still love each other but we’ve been having problems because he literally discusses our relationship with people I barely know and we would talk then next minute somebody is telling me something completely different. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Understanding Women’s Social Nervousness

I write this for guys who feel frustrated or confused by the way women can seem sometimes when they’re interacting with them, particularly who are young or just don’t have a lot of experience in mingling with females. So...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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I made out with my guy friend and now he's distant. Why?

I need some advice please... we've been friends for about 15 months and there's always been a certain vibe with us, always teasing and flirting with each other but we feel super comfortable with each other like we would...

talia44

Xper 1 Age: 21

Guys, I wanna be woman enough and ask for another date instead should I do this or nah?

Hi everyone so I came to a realization. So there was this guy I was talking to. We always talked everyday he said he will do this do that etc etc etc. However after our second date he was acting funny by Dry texting. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think I like a guy that I don’t really know?

So I know this guy, let’s call him K, for a little more than a year. We used to go to the same gym but he switched to a more professional one because he trains power lifting. My best friend and K are really close friends...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Why do older kids and teens get embarrassed about liking the opposite sex gender?

Usually people start having crushes between ages 10-14 or during their HS years. What's so embarrassing about liking the opposite sex gender? A guy doesn't want the girl to find out he likes her. Vice-versa and it's the...

Danielle93

Guru Age: 33

Relationships

Y'all did I do the right decision?

So me and my boyfriend broke up. I am 36 weeks pregnant of him. And like I explained in my previous question. I went and asked him questions like :'who is he seeing when he sleeps over at his friends house' cause he is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did this guy admit he is lonely?

He is a guy friend and he told me this which made me feel sad and pity for him. For context, i visited him again in his city and we had a great time, a blast where we keep on laughing. Whenever we see each other, he never...

Ofoceans105

Xper 1 Age: 35