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Is this what I must do? Work so hard God is proud of me and blesses me.

I must hit the gym hard and develop physicality, I must get as rich as possible, I must become as confident, charismatic and charming as possible, I must get cool interests, I must develop high social status. I must develop good style and groom myself so well.

I need to be the BEST competitor to secure a beautiful girl for a long married life.
A girl just needs to be pretty and sweet, a man must have so much more. I need work so hard. It might take 6-12 years but it’s worth it.
Don’t forget:

• Only 40% of men in human history procreated whereas 80% of women did.
• Social media has created an ultra hyper competitive environment where super high up men message 1000s of pretty women each in random villages. She’ll feel like a queen when she’s 20 and not done anything with her life. Women get endless attention, a girl can be rude and still get a guy. This is true.

I’ll just make a list:

* Smiles and waves first whenever she sees you and looks down
* Looks at you from afar but often I just catch her looking away or sits somewhere she can see you
* Chatty and bubbly and asking questions one day and quiet and not very ‘into the conversation’ the next? Like short answers, quiet etc. Also fiddling with stuff like a phone but not actually using it. Just tapping some buttons quickly and putting it down. This was when she was quiet.
* Sometimes only does a slight smile, rather than full-on belly laughing, when telling a joke or saying something in a humorous way
* Shows you photos of stuff on their phone
* Plays with hair and then turns and looks right at you (knew I was in the room beforehand)
* Tells you about some of their likes and dislikes (music, favourite weather, pets, future plans)
* Open body language - feet pointing towards me, arms aren’t folded but by her sides, sits straight
* More confident when with friends
* When talking, makes eye contact for a few seconds and then looks down or to the side whist talking and smiling a bit
* Always facing you (whole body and feet) when talking and standing

Bonus one:
* Tried to talk to me first many times in the past (but I didn’t pay much notice at the time as I was occupied with so much stuff at the time) A few of those past interactions she was fine talking and others she was quiet.

^ This above one makes me think she’s liked me for a while and usually, I’d imagine a introverted girl or a shy girl wouldn’t try to get a guys attention anymore than twice before giving up. She’s tried like… 6 times since October last year.

FYI - I’ve already gotten past the approach barrier and we’ve spoken a few times recently for about 25 minutes each time.

Any input is welcome and thank you in advance girls and guys!

Who says nerdy guys can't be confident or athletic guys can't be shy huh?

Girls, who would you rather date shy, nerdy, and intellectual or confident, athletic, and popular?