My guy friends so confident around me and other girls but around certain girls he’s completely different and almost shy. He never admits to liking them or finding them attractive so why does he behave differently?
There could be many reasons why a guy behaves differently around girls he likes versus girls he doesn't like. Here are some possibilities:
1. Fear of rejection: If a guy is interested in a girl, he may feel more vulnerable and afraid of rejection. This can make him more nervous or shy around her, as he is trying to impress her or avoid making a mistake.
2. Increased pressure: When a guy is interested in a girl, he may feel more pressure to make a good impression or say the right thing. This can lead to him being more cautious or reserved, as he is trying to navigate the situation carefully.
3. Different personalities: It's possible that a guy's behavior around different girls is simply a reflection of his personality or comfort level with them. He may feel more at ease around girls he doesn't like because he isn't trying to impress them or win their affection.
4. Social norms: In some cases, guys may feel more pressure to act in a certain way around girls they are interested in, based on cultural or social norms. For example, they may feel like they need to be more chivalrous or protective around girls they like, which can affect their behavior.
Ultimately, every person is different and there may be many reasons why a guy behaves differently around different girls. If you are interested in him, it may be helpful to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and expectations, and to create a safe and respectful space for both of you to express yourselves.
That's girls too. Everyone does this.
It's because they really really really want the girls he likes to think well of them. It's trying to appear at your best. And it's not conscious. It's a matter of instinct. But it has to do with caring a whole lot about that person's opinion of you, which inevitably makes someone act a bit differently than with people whose opinion in particular is no more important than anyone elses'.
If you've ever been around a guy you like. You do it too. You may not be aware of it. But I can guarantee you that you do it just the same. Everyone does. 🙂
I know right? I hear guys all the time saying that they're very shy around women, when in reality it would be more accurate of them to describe themselves as very shy around women that they find attractive.
I guess it’s the same as girls being around cute guys or their crush
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He wants to impress the women he likes, and is worried that if he says something, he won't leave a good impression
I have no reason to hold back around girls I'm not attracted to. They can judge me all they want, I don't give a fuck.
But when I'm around an attractive girl, I feel like everything I say or do is gonna screw up my chances with her.
So I usually just avoid them in general lol
God forbid I do have to talk to them, I talk all quiet and in short phrases, and avoid eye contact.
Unless I want to hit on them, then I turn up the charm and confidence, but most girls I'm attracted to are already taken, so I don't often hit on them
With other people, we're generally not conscious of ourselves, we're just being normal and doing what comes naturally, so confidence is easy to come by.
But around a crush, you're much more likely to be self conscious and constantly worrying about how they perceive you, that can very quickly lead to awkwardness and shyness. Its something you have to practice to get out of.
can't say anything id be a hypocrite. They dont want to say or do something that could exclude them from that girl. Not trying at all is sometimes better than being rejected. I know that if you have your heart set on one girl your setting yourself up for suffering.
However getting together with a girl that your so attracted to you can barely talk is in my opinion the only way the guy is going to give the girl the respect, and thought she deserves.
It varies with everyone. I want potential partners to see me as quite a catch. With nobodies, I'm less impressed. I only watch myself around women who truly disgust me, because I don't want to give them any ammunition.
It varies. That is a fair statement. But some women are easy to talk to than others. Some women are better at giving both verbal and non verbal feedback than others. Of course a guy can be more confident around a woman he doesn't really like. But he can be confident around a woman that makes it easier to be confident. Talking to some women is like pulling teeth. Some women feel the job is a man's job and his job alone. Not surprisingly these women are generally less successful.
those girls reach into his heart and deeper emotions, mess up his brain chemistry.
It doesn't mean that the connection is a good thing, it means he's familiar at a deep level.
in a nutshell, they have no emotional stake in their reaction/s to what they say or do where as they have a potebtial chance of loss at the chance to date/be with a woman he finds attractive, so is more nervous avout making some percieved mistake.
It's hard not to be nervous when you care about the outcome.
This is why women constantly date men who don't give a shit about them; they were confident.
Women then complain about it, obviously.
If you aren't attracted to a girl, it doesn't matter if she likes your personality or not. Yet if you are attracted to her, you want her to like you so if you choose to ask her out, she'll say yes.
For the same reason you dare to be cocky in a job interview for a position you don't really care about vs. One that really matters to you.
Because he likes them and have a feeling that she might not like him back.
Because I don't care nearly much about other girls or people as much as this girl.
cuz it’s easy to be confident around girls ur not attracted to 😂
Be all can be arse around people we don't care about
Because there's nothing to lose.
Same reason girls are
No desire to impress
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