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It’s hard for everyone? It’s only easy if you decide you’re not going to have any standards.

The amount of flakyness I get from women on dating apps is insane. I feel like saying there is no getting better than me for sure and you’re still in this rat race to find more and more and more. Like a drug.

I take offence to it tbh, because as a guy there’s no winning, what are these girls chasing anyway super famous celebrities? Or do they just want attention and not date.

Total Equality

• men and women get paid the same but must work the same hours including overtime
• men and women can both vote but men and women must be drafted into the military
• men and women split 50/50 pay on everything including dates and bills
• 50/50 men and women in leadership positions. 50/50 men and women in dangerous dirty jobs
• prisons must be occupied with 50% men and 50% women
• men and women can fight for whatever lifeboats are left on a sinking ship
• women can not run for safety if her man is fending off an assailant coming after her
• women can hit men as hard as possible but men can also hit women back just as hard
• no tone policing from anyone. men can be as harsh as they want to women
• no one is left single, all men and all women will partner up against their wishes

Total Chivalry

• men must work always. women won't work and won't get paid
• only men can vote but get drafted into the military. no vote and no draft for women
• men must pay for everything from dates to bills
• 100% men in leadership positions and 100% men in dangerous dirty jobs
• prisons only for prisoners regardless of demographics
• men must give up their spot in the lifeboats for women
• men must always help a woman who can run away from danger even at the cost of his life
• men must never hit women ever even if women are hitting men as hard as possible
• men must always watch their tone when talking to and about women
• ultra-capitalism is in the dating market

So there's a girl at work who for one week straight until a Saturday I noticed has been staring at me even when I notice and take a quick look back to see if she's still staring. I couldn't really tell if she smiled back or what because I would look for one second and look away and saw she would keep her gaze until I was gone plus she had a mask on a few times. She wears glasses but I notice sometimes she takes her glasses off and puts them on and I tried to to notice or take a guess when and I don't want to say she is but she might be copying me. Finally a week after she was staring at me and I didn't say anything to her I finally go up to her and ask her for her name which she tells me, I introduce myself to her and tell I'm probably interested in getting to know her more she says okay and after that she kinda ignores me. She didn't tell me she had a boyfriend when I said I wanted to get to know her but deep down I have a feeling she has a boyfriend and she was playing with me the whole time. Before moving on I'm going to give a few things about her, one of them being I notice she kind of keeps to herself so that kind of gives me hints she either keeps to herself or she doesn't want to be bothered by anyone. Not sure but sometimes she goes home early which gives me hints of her having a child. She's a light skin Spanish girl which gives me hints that she is playing with me since Spanish women don't date dark skin men and I'm what you would call a black American, she's not exotic hot Spanish woman but moreso homely cute, and her work clothes isn't something that makes her stand out it's more loose fit baggy jeans. The reason I didn't go over to her and went a week later is because I wasn't and still not sure if she actually is interested in me because I'm old (41) and she looks young, she's Spanish and I'm black, and this is a first for me. Is she playing me or am I being to BP'ed.