Search Results: getting guys to notice

Isn't telling skinny men to hit the gym the same as telling small boob girls to get boob jobs?

First I must say that nobody is denying that muscular men are attractive. The point I'm getting at is that men in general aren't taught self love. I spoke to guys online that are fit bulky and ripped that still feel self...

DeadMan21

Xper 1 Age: 40

What’s going on with my girlfriend?

I’m going to start off by saying I’m sure what you guys are going to say but I’m going to explain.. so I noticed my girlfriend sending less emojis.. and not really FaceTiming me as much I kinda told her about it and she...

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Yoda Age: 41

Society & Politics

Is it possible that some “white knights” just got lucky with women earlier in their lives and never had to deal with getting burned?

In general I believe modern white knights are special kinds of sociopaths. They know they are dishing out cheap shots when they defend women who are unfairly bashing men. They also know the guys they are throwing under...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this being rude?

I (26f) agreed to date this guy (28m) I often meet at the library even tho I really wasn't into him. I wanted to decide whether or not I liked him after I spoke to him. Anyway, I'm really talkative so the first date went...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Is he waiting for me to reach out?

About four months ago I started talking to this guy that I met through a mutual friend. We seem to hit it off great and we were just friends for about a month until he asked me on a date after going out for about three...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, My excoworker started coming in more often to my work. Tell me I'm overthinking and getting my hppes up?

Since he found out that's my store, he has started eating at my restaurant more and more often. I recently removed him from my circle, because we never spoke or hung out (he would cancel or reject plans with me), and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why guys from my generation don't appreciate woman their own age 28-30 ?

One of my ex sister in law she is 30 but people always tell her she looks 19 and looks good for her age she can even be a model if she wanted to. But sadly her husband age 28 wants to divorce her a few months ago we found...

Alwayreckles93

Yoda Age: 33

Why do some insecure women have mixed signals, flip-flopping between wanting a guy to look at her body and acting self-conscious around him?

I've seen this happen a few times. Women who act like that have been attractive and have gotten plenty of attention from guys, and have given clear signs of being interested in me. One girl bent over right in front of me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Asking for a friend - If a girl best friend wants her guy best friend to get a girlfriend, what does that means?

Let's name these two people James and Rebecca. My brother, James, and Rebecca have known each other since they were kids. They are very close like I would see them cuddling and casually holding hands. I think over the...

courtneylandry

Xper 5 Age: 24

How to get over my fear of commitment ak I overthinking?

So the women in my family have the worst luck with men. None of their relationships last and the guy always leaves in cheats on them or us completely psycho they have to ger a restraining order. However this year I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is she acting this way with me?

I thought we were having a great time over the last few weeks getting to know each other but now it feels that she’s being cold towards me for some reason. She won’t stop and talk with me as before, she’ll act as if she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Guys what do you think about a girl who likes to eat a lot?

Firstly I'd like to say I'm very healthy and fit but I do enjoy my food and I like my food. I used to be really shy about eating In front of others when I was a bit bigger because I didn't want people thinking I was a fat...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Guys, what is going on?

I used to talk to this guy and I see him around everyday especially on public transport. We kind of had a falling out so I dont speak to him but his friend still stares at me and he still sits around me. I've notice when...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy at work is a bit touchy/flirty and now has started acting differently with me - does this mean anything?

This man I work with gets extremely close to me when we are talking. He’s very attractive, friendly, funny and always very nice to me. He’s not married but he has a girlfriend. I’m 30 and he’s 48. I haven’t noticed him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Is she flirting or am I jumping to conclusions?

Perhaps I'm just oblivious as always or even being assumptius but I'm a bit stumped with a girl I'm friends with. We share some interests so we often hang out from that with and without others but I started to wonder...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, how to make guys notice the small changes you do in daily life?

Like getting them to notice that you had your hair done today. Nails, eyebrows, tan whatever. Also gets applied to other small things. What do you do to get them to know about such things? Also, any tips for guys to help...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Im 14 and everyone seems to like a guy but I don't like anyone?

I try so hard to like someone, anyone but I just don't. Also all my friends are getting boyfriends but nobody seems to notice me.

Ellaxxxx

Xper 4 Age: 18

Girls, Is she flirting or just being friendly?

A shy girl from work has just started working in my team. She sits next to me, I noticed shy is incredibly shy. She doesn't speak to any one and is very quiet. Anyways I began talking to her and I noticed her getting more...

Anonymous

(30-35)