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I have a guy best friend and I do like him back, but am trying to figure out if he likes me before making any moves. I can’t tell if these things I’m about to list or coincidences or not, so any advice is appreciated.

• He often asks me if I find celebrities/characters/random guys that look like him attractive
• He seems to get jealous when I bring up other random dudes
• He tries really hard to get close to my dad
• My dad and one of our mutual friends think he has a thing for me
• In the past, though this was a few years ago, he told me I look like a doll on one occasion and Rapunzel on another
• I gave him a piece of jewelry for his birthday and he gave me one back (though this could just be returning the kindness)
• He described his type (personality wise) in a group setting one time and someone said that that description sounds like me, but he went quiet after that
• He sends me silly cat and animal videos a lot
• One time we were talking and he said “you never tell anyone you love them” but in such a way & context that I think he wanted me to say it to him

I have heard about it. Men saying that it is women mistake if she is single is her 30s or late 20s. but how?

Because she was dating good looking dude? So women shouldn't date someone who they find attractive? Because for some reason a good looking can pump and dump you?

I mean if I started relationship with long term intention. Then isn't it his mistake if he lie?

And they always talk about giving chance to uglier nice guy. But how do you know if this niceness is fake or real. And ugly guy are capable of doing too. And second I used to be fat. I was bullied by guys because of it. I seriously don't want to have kids with a ugly dude. Because it could mean a ugly daughter. And ugly women suffer.

And why would I date someone if there is 0 attraction. Men never do it. Why should women?

If I like his personality but don't find him attractive. Then he would be a friend. I like many men and women personality. Lol

Men always imagine that it happen because women were only into short term relationship. Dude I never have been in short term relationship. Have 0 interest in hook up. But it is possible that I might be single at 30s. because men lie/cheat/abuse you. I don't think it would be good idea to stay with a guy if he beat me. Because he can beat our kids too. I don't want that for my kid's. How is my mistake if he lied about being interested in long term relationship? Or cheat?