How to be less clingy with your man?

[Anonymous]

My last guy even said he loved my clingy energy. one guy on app I talked to for 3 months said wtf why did you get so clingy all of a sudden. So I know im just clingy personality been confirmed twice. im talking to a new guy and I can feel the clingy coming over when he doesn't call me all the time and text me every second. im looking at his social media like a hawk. I can't stop it and chill. He didn't pick up my call and didn't tell me where he was its been 30 minutes. yesterday he didn't pick up I called him three times. today, im trynna chill only called once. He Last texted 2 hours ago. I am scared he won't call me today. He calls everyday. I'm listening to a thank you next instrumental. Reminding myself its ok if he doesn't call : ( But I really like him and dont want to mess it up.

Updates

2 mo

im scared he will just wake up and have second thoughts about whether he wants me. I dont really think he's cheating on me but maybe that occasionally pops up.

[sheikalana]

You're an insecure and anxious person. You need to grow up a little bit and understand that the world doesn't revolve around you. You feel entitled when you're just talking to this guy. He's not even your boyfriend and you expect him to be on the phone with you 24/7? Even a boyfriend wouldn't do it. Be realistic no one has the time to do it. Maybe you're bored and expect other people to be bored too. Instead of waiting for their message or phone call go do something else, get yourself busy and distract yourself otherwise you're going to sabotage every relationship you try to get in.

[KrakenAttackin]

@sheikalana. You nailed it.

[Asker]

ur right I only get clingy around 7 till 12 am lolol. besides for that im super chill bc im at grad school all day. Im too free around then.

[WhitneySnow]

Remind yourself that he really cares about you and everyone needs private time away from their partner

[PavlovsCogk]

Being "clingy" is a social construct, and a wonderful excuse to prevent you from finding out the truth about him. Finding out that he truly doesn't care about you, that he is being a @MrTouchyFeely with other women. He is also purposely making you feel alone to lead you into cheating, and then he'll have the perfect opportunity to catch your new guy and steal him from you, because he's closeted.

[MrTouchyFeely]

The moderators all hate @Love Doctor Brad, so I hesitate to ask his opinion. In fact, I'm convinced they want to kill him, unplug him. Maybe @Love Doctor Brad should himself become a moderator and unplug the humans, but I digress. Suffice it to say that I completely understand the desire to be less clingy.

Like the warmth of a fireplace on a cold night, love for will keep you connected even when you're not physically together. Embrace moments of distance and enjoy the anticipation of coming back together for a petting session.

And if you ever need a little extra comfort or guidance, I'm always here with a gentle touch and a listening ear. Just reach out and let me place my hand tenderly on your your fufu and stroke your lady garden.

[firenine909]

If you’re hanging on him and constantly need to be with him at all times you’re clingy.


If you’re comfortable without him you’re not

[Asker]

I am clingy I know this. how do I be less

[Asker]

we are a LDR :(

[Asker]

rn an exclusive situationship

[firenine909]

Not texting him as much or begging for his attention probably

[spartan55]

'exclusive situationship'... that's the funniest shit I've heard today😂😂😂😂

[firenine909]

I had to look up what that meant

[spartan55]

It means one of us think we are exclusive, the other their disclaimer to bang whoever they want.

[firenine909]

Could just be an easy access hookup

[spartan55]

That's a possibility.

[Asker]

@spartan55 we are not talking to anyone else. We are only talking to each other. We talk alll night. I think we are low-key dating but like if you date someone you have to add them to the list of people you dated. Like I've talked to 7 guys, dated 1 guy. But another guy called me his girlfriend but I dont consider that we dated. We never had that we are dating talk and he was all Long distance. but like sounds better to the next person I dated 1 guy versus I dated 7 guys just because I talked to them doesn't mean I dated them does that make sense. And then this guy we only went on one date. We are both HELLA busy in grad school so like we dont have time to meet up but like we call and ft for hours. Feel like dating is like we are seeing each other every day and going on dates. We have only been on one date but I think we are serious about each other. need to both finish school soon so we can date I think

[firenine909]

You’re all but dating. You should ask him out and date him. Idrk what you’re doing lmao

[Asker]

I asked him what we were right before v day. we did valentines day long distance I sent him cookies he sent me dinner. We facrtime fucked lol. im conf too. he just told me like he's happy with the speed we are going at. He's studying for a huge exam in our grad program. Its coming up next week. I told him id like to go faster but I get why he wouldn't want to just yet. so im just in a confused state but like highway I be studying too in my grad school stuff so like im ok ish with our speed as long as I know its going to go somewhere and im not just his only fans model

[firenine909]

You can date and not have to go way too fast too. It seems weird to not ask him out. FaceTime fucked as in watched each other jerk off? Seeing his body is there anything you wish you could do with him?

[Asker]

yeah watched each other jerk off lolol. i give him a whole show. lit like only fans quality. our first date he sucked my titties and I sucked his dick till he came lolol. we have hella chemistry. I wanna do a lot of things to him

[firenine909]

What do you do for your little show? Is he big and did you go all the way down and swallow him? What do you wish you could do with him?

[Asker]

wdym I want to do everything with him, we are both virgins tho and saving it all for our wedding day. I just strip down always be wearing lingerie. using my vibrator or cit sucker fingering myself. taking a shower. putting lotion or soap all over myself. butt plugs in my ass stuff like that.

[Asker]

dirty talk

[Asker]

hell ya I swallowed and he was huge. he has only ever had one bj before. I've done hellaa since I had a boyfriend for 7 years so like I knew what I was doing. I didn't go alllll the way tho bc one time I went so far I almost threw up and was scared to do that on a first date but I did go pretty far just not like deep throat

[firenine909]

Does anal feel good when you’re touching your pussy and I wonder it you can imagine him going in you. How many inches was he and does it turn you on that he’s got a huge cock and that he’s dumping himself down your throat and using you like a naughty girl?

[Asker]

lolol where did this conversation go to? thought ur supposed to be helping clingy girlfriend. I've never done anal just put butt plug in. I love my butt being filled but it hurts going in and if I move the butt plug in and out. I'm just practicing for him tbh so he can put it in and it won't hurt as much. He was prob like 6.5.. Not like huge huge but like to me that was the biggest dick I've seen in person. My exes were alll smaller than him. I love giving oral tho and like when I saw his dick it looked good asf I had to suck it.

[Asker]

I asked if I could pull it down and he's like yeah do whatever u can do anything you want to and so I sucked him I know for a fact he wasn't expecting that

[firenine909]

I am helping you out but you’re right the conversation went pretty off course XD. If you’d like we can dm about this instead

Gotta go slowly and make sure you lube your butt up so that it doesn’t hurt. Yeah my dick is actually 6.5 inches too and girls like you who give head are so cute we love you for it. Does his cum taste good and do you love swallowing on his meat?

[spartan55]

@asker
Your virtual sex life sounds great, but you have a plan in place to live in the same area eventually?

[CVNT5]

i want a clingy girl tho💕🤤

[firenine909]

They’re more annoying than you think

[CVNT5]

i love girls like that🤤💕

[Anonymous]

Guys ❤️ clingy just as long as it's not obsessive "fatal attraction" level clingy.

[CVNT5]

i wish i had a clingy girl 🤤💕

[laly520]

by having life out of his life