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I really need your take on this. Okay so my boyfriend says he does a lot for me. He says he does sooo much for me and gives me his last.

But we do not ever go on dates our whole 6 month relationship only went on 1 date.

He spends money on Uber for me ( he doesn’t have a car)

he pays for the hotel ( because he stays with his family )

we have sex ( he wants a lot of sex and sometimes forces me or makes me feel bad if I don’t)

he buys me food when he sees me.

He also occasionally sends me 40/60$

He made a comment joking how he wouldn’t have sex in his car which I thought was weird

But on the latest date had been texting saying he was going to do things to me etc then just didn’t sleep with me and made excuses like it wasn’t the right place

But he's super keen on me and asked if we were dating

He called me gorgeous twice last night too and kept staring at me to say it. And said he loved looking at me

He has always said that too

Does he not want to sleep with me?

He goes out his way to see he, pays for all the dates. Has told everyone about me. And is saying I’m “his” etc.

I’m his first person since a 10 year relationship that ended last year. He’s never dated.

Backstory: We’re acquaintances (friends of a friend.), we met at a party in the beginning of the year. He’d been trying to ask me out I had a lot of things happening all at once. Career change and moving figuring out if I’d continue to live in the area or find something back in my hometown. I stayed in the area, he helped me move my mattress. Then we’d been texting pretty much everyday and he’d FaceTime me twice just talking nothing crazy. I had car trouble, that he fixed. I couldn’t pay him he knows I cook so he asked me if that could be his payment. I said yeah. We were hanging out eating, smoked some weed and we both had stuff to get back to.

Current: I found free roller skating at a park and asked if he wanted to go. He said yes and it became a date. We ended up hooking up. We had some technical difficulties and planned for next weekend.

That next weekend, He asked if I still wanted to go to the movies with him, I said yes. Dressed a little fancy and we came back to my place to eat. We watched another movie he really wanted to see b/c he hadn’t seen it. Movie finished at 3am, I asked if he was going home he said he was really tired. I said he can sleep here if he wants he said yeah. Surprise he wasn’t that tired. We tried with the sex again. He thought he was hurting me I assured him he wasn’t. I don’t think he believed me and we just laid there talking for like a half hour and fell asleep. He also left his earring. I didn’t say anything about it though. After we were texting for four days. The responses weren’t dry or sparse everything normal. Then he suddenly stopped.

Should I text him just a simple “Hey, you good?” Or just keep being radio silent? I can at least think of five reasons: He’s not interested. He’s an introvert a social battery thing. Focused on finding a new apartment that I distracted him from twice. He actually wants a girlfriend (not sure why). Or it’s all those reasons. Should I just not say anything and leave him alone?