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I have a huge problem with him and is that he has no dreams, no goals in life besides things related to his hobbies, and he has no interest in self-improvement.

He has a decent paying job but he hates it. There’s no goals of where he wants to be in 5-years. He just wants to keep this job because he can easily slack off. There is also no interest in working hard or hustling for money. He doesn’t even want to make more money. Not interested in becoming a manager or advance in his career. He just wants more free time for his hobby.

He doesn’t think not having any goals is a problem. I think he lacks motivation in life and mainly he is just lazy. One thing I really dislike was how he went to confide in a friend of this issue. His friend told him that this is absolutely normal to not wanting more or have goals in life. That was all it took for him to confirmed he shouldn’t have motivations. Your friend would not tell you that you are not normal. I see that his friend is actually very motivated to better himself! In my opinion, it is not healthy to not have any motivation in life. It really frustrates me because he just wanted to hear what he wanted to hear and that’s that. In fact, he came back to me explaining that it’s a cultural difference problem. And that it is only my family culture where we hustle and always looking to improve ourselves and expanding our income.