We're all streamers by the way that how I know her. But recently he goes to this girls stream and spends almost all his time there. He won't even respond to any of my messages while he's there. Even stays up until 3-4am on this person's stream. I feel ignored and pushed aside. I tried to bring it up gently, like "I feel a little lonely because you've been paying more attention to another girl than you do me a lot lately and it's making me uncomfortable." He accused me of stalking and jealousy and being angry. Then cancelled our date. He won't talk or message me anymore. He says I'm still his girlfriend but "I'm still not calm over what happened". It's very painful. How do I get through to him that I'm not trying to take his freedom away or control his friends? as I don't have a problem with them being friends. In fact I'm happy to see him having fun because I love his smile. I just have a problem with how I'm feeling ignored. But when I bring it up he insists I'm trying to control him. I don't think he'll cheat, I trust him. I just want him to spend more time with me. Is the problem me?
Superb Opinion
If he spends more time with her than you then I don’t think you have a jealously issue, I think your boyfriend at the very least is prioritizing her over you which is never acceptable. He’s going to break your heart sooner or later, I suggest finding a new boyfriend.
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Uh... I think you're being a little too nice about the situation that's definietly not ok. He's reacting like that to take the attention off of him to make you think that you're being unreasonable when you're not. It's a common manipulation tactic, people who respond with anger like that usually means their doing something wrong.
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he should respect your wishes on this
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