My boyfriend spends a lot more time with a girl streamer and if I bring this up he will be angry and accuse me of being very angry and jealous?

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We're all streamers by the way that how I know her. But recently he goes to this girls stream and spends almost all his time there. He won't even respond to any of my messages while he's there. Even stays up until 3-4am on this person's stream. I feel ignored and pushed aside. I tried to bring it up gently, like "I feel a little lonely because you've been paying more attention to another girl than you do me a lot lately and it's making me uncomfortable." He accused me of stalking and jealousy and being angry. Then cancelled our date. He won't talk or message me anymore. He says I'm still his girlfriend but "I'm still not calm over what happened". It's very painful. How do I get through to him that I'm not trying to take his freedom away or control his friends? as I don't have a problem with them being friends. In fact I'm happy to see him having fun because I love his smile. I just have a problem with how I'm feeling ignored. But when I bring it up he insists I'm trying to control him. I don't think he'll cheat, I trust him. I just want him to spend more time with me. Is the problem me?

My boyfriend spends a lot more time with a girl streamer and if I bring this up he will be angry and accuse me of being very angry and jealous?
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