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Search Results: should i ask her out first date
How should I handle this? She was very into me, and suddenly she said she don’t know?
To keep it as short as possible. We met online, planned a date, had a great time and planned the next date the day after the first one… then I went away for a week and as soon as I came back we had our third date which...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a good, bad or neutral idea to have a first date on Valentine’s Day?
I am interested in this woman at my church. Every single person I know says I need to ask her out. I was going to do that today but she wasn’t at church. Due to our jobs, I never really see her anywhere outside of...
UmbrusNightshade
Xper 5 Age: 40 My sister is intentionally sabotaging my new relationship, should I just end it?
So I (24 F) have been seeing this guy (23 M) , let’s call him Matt, for about a 2 months. we met because he’s one of my sisters (27 F) coworkers/close friends, he showed interest and ask if she’d be ok with it and she...
Anonymous
(25-29) The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.
I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...
SimonClass
Xper 2 Age: 28 He wants me to be his girlfriend… just not right now?
I recently started seeing this guy, and from the start he’s said he’s looking for something serious. The last date we went on he started complaining about how “he was so conflicted” and when I asked him about why, he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Multiple rainchecks? Hot and cold? Your take pls ☺️?
Guy rescheduled the first date due to a seemingly legit reason, the second time we saw each other he asked to postone the tea sesh we planned as the last thing and cancelled the next date the day of citing being exhausted...
Anonymous
(30-35) Perspective for struggling university students out there.
Been there. It sucks to struggle at university...especially when you are taking out so much money to do so. If you are struggling at university out there, perhaps I can give you some hope. In high school I was not a...
Messianic_Monk
Xper 5 Age: 28 Did our first date went well?
Here are some details which are positives : • The date should have lasted 1h because she had a conference afterwards, but in the end she never went and the date lasted 3 hours • We looked each other in the eyes the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal for the man to always choose the place for the dates?
There’s a guy I met on hinge recently that I went on 2 dates with, & I feel like he always wanted to be very in control of everything. He’s 29 & I’m 24, so I feel like he was trying to prove his manliness, maturity &...
nocturnalbaby
Xper 5 Age: 28 Are these normal 1st & 2nd date behaviours?
So I matched with a guy on hinge a few weeks ago. He’s 29, I’m 24. I’ve gone on 2 dates with him. The first one was dinner at a sushi restaurant followed by ice cream & a game of pool at a nearby pub. It was cold that...
nocturnalbaby
Xper 5 Age: 28 Is he supposed to ask me be his girlfriend after we kissed.. ?
Or is it too soon? We have been knowing each other for 1 month only! We met online firstly then in person in our first dates we didn’t rush much to see who we were in person as we had no idea online. Turns out I like him...
Anonymous
(30-35) Dating a guy who has a kid?
I was hanging out with my friends the other day. The guy approached me, asked for my number and showed genuine interest in me. We decided to meet up for the first time and had a conversation. I realized that he has a kid...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have I blown it? Feeling very guilty?
This guy (30M) and I (30F) have been texting nonstop for 3 weeks straight. Last week we went on 2 dates, 5+ hours each, lots of hand holding, laughing, good conversation, joking about our “future houses/holidays/pets” etc...
Gemini90
Xper 1 Age: 34 Am I in friends with benefits or situationship?
I met this guy on Tinder in Bali (we were both tourists in Bali); we talked for around 2 hours, and I must say it was a fun convo with him. It was around 2 a. m. at that time; it was too late and the bar was ready to...
Anonymous
(25-29) What Do Guys Want to Know About Girls?
There are always questions we have about the opposite sex. It bothers us, we need to know, we don't understand, so here are a few. As per usual, I DO NOT SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN, just my own experience, so chill if you...
Anonymous
(36-45) Have I messed this up - I’m feeling guilty :(?
This guy (30M) and I (30F) have been texting nonstop for 3 weeks straight. Last week we went on 2 dates, 5+ hours each, lots of hand holding, laughing, good conversation, joking about our “future houses/holidays/pets” etc...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I mess this up - feeling really guilty :(?
This guy (30M) and I (30F) have been texting nonstop for 3 weeks straight. Last week we went on 2 dates, 5+ hours each, lots of hand holding, laughing, good conversation, joking about our “future houses/holidays/pets” etc...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this love bombing?
My best friend just went on her first date with a guy Friday night and he asked her to be his girlfriend the same day. Bought her a gift and is wanting to take her to a hotel so they can spend his birthday together. To...
Anonymous
(36-45) 
Can someone help clarify why she did this?
I've been talking to a girl for the last three months. Tomorrow is are first date and my dad wanted to talk to her before we meet and I meet her family. Well my dad asked her "Why do you like my son?" And her reply was...
Anonymous
(25-29) 