Search Results: guys and long term relationships

Girls, what do you look at or consider when deciding if a guy is "relationship material" to you?

I'm seeing some questions on here this morning from women that are kind of disturbing this way lol. So it inspired this question. What "matters" when you're thinking about if a guy is for you long term. And when do you...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is there a time limit on how long it takes to fall in love?

So I’m almost 27, never been married, I don’t have kids and never really been in long term relationships. I feel like I have a hard time actually falling in love, it takes really long for me to form a deep connection with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I pursue a relationship with him?

So I've gone on a few dates with this guy - he's nice, funny, smart, attractive, respectful, and he's a college graduate at age 21. Frankly, we have some chemistry, and he meets all of my criteria. He's kind of shy, so...

LilyoftheLake

Xper 7 Age: 26

So I've gone on a few dates with this guy - he's nice, funny, smart, attractive, respectful, and he's a college graduate at age 21. Frankly, we have some chemistry, and he meets all of

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Why would a guy pull back after messing around once?

First of all, I need to ask for no judgement here, please. I know my behavior has not been the best and I probably deserve what I'm getting. But I truly need help. I am married, but VERY unhappily. I'm staying in my...

anonamy

Xper 3 Age: 42

Need some dating feedback?

To preface this, I AM in therapy and have been for a bit. I just would like to hear some other experiences and opinions as well. SO I'm 26 and don't have the most dating success. I was in a very traumatic 6 year...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it ok that my boyfriend receives gifts and notes from his ex and keeps them?

Hey folks! I need an advice as I am at a turning point in my relationship. I am together with my boyfriend for one year now and long story short I am considering to move to another country for him as he got relocated with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this common in casual dating?

I recently connected with this guy through OLD (we knew one another in real life a few years back). When we first reconnected he was talking about relationships and how he wanted to try and see what would happen. Well a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean if a guy (28m) calls you (33f) "mi amor"?

I've been seeing a guy for 3 months. At first he said he just wanted to be friends bc he separated from his ex wife almost a year ago. They separated amicably. I know he really isn't with her anymore, trust me. He is...

prchica2007

Xper 2 Age: 37

Should I wait around until he figures shit out and comes back to me? at least for 6 months?

i was seeing this guy for 2 months. he has never had a thing or a stable relationship going on longer than a couple of months. i come from long term relationships that was mature my side its just the other one that...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Probability that this guy likes me and at least wants to try being friends?

I have been curious about a guy I work with. If I'm not mistaken, there seems to be a chance that he may have some interest in me. We work in a warehouse environment. I work in a department where we work in our own...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why does my sister blame me for her relationship ending?

I grew up in a very toxic environment and abusive household. My mom always hated me and even offered me up to get rape by a man. She bullied me tremendously and harassed me. She constantly harassed me and intimidated me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A guy that ghosted me after sex keeps sending me friend requests after I delete them everytime?

So last year I hooked up with a guy that had tried to hook up with me for a long time. I was in a relationship when he first started texting me so obviously I said no to his advances. But when my relationship ended, I...

Billiegirl

Xper 7 Age: 26

Why would someone make you madly fall in love and then leave?

I was dating this guy short-term and during our relationship he showed some serious commitment and that he's very serious towards me and that I am very special to him. Then suddenly he broke-up with me telling me that...

francesca93

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Guys, Straight guys, who of you would like a long term, exclusive/committed relationship with an extravagant/flamboyant woman?

I mean women who do extra, swinging of hips, etc , I guess she always looks like the singer in a music video. Always dresses fancy. Either like Sharpay or a more mature woman like Lilit (not necessarily wearing bright...

LovingLoverReturned

Explorer Age: 25

I am jealous to my best friend and my girlfriend. What to do with my jealousy?

The thing is that I am in one of the best relationship ever. This is my first really long term relationship, but I am jealous to my best friend and I am afraid that I will lose my girlfriend because of him. I think I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How to kindly let a guy know to back off a little?

So guys of G&G.. if you recently started talking and flirting with a girl.. and you don’t realize it but you’re coming on to strong.. how would you prefer the girl let you know your doing so? In my situation a guy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will he break up with her one day?

So there is this guy I really like and unfortunately he has a girlfriend, but I was only seeing him because he was in a long distance open relationship at the time. Now he is in Spain with her traveling, where she was...

Carmona2

Xper 5 Age: 27