To preface this, I AM in therapy and have been for a bit. I just would like to hear some other experiences and opinions as well.
SO I'm 26 and don't have the most dating success. I was in a very traumatic 6 year relationship, then have probably only been in 3 other *actual* relationships. None super long term.
I don't have issues getting dates, but keep a relationship is hard. I want to know when is the appropriate time frame when you're seeing someone to ask for some more of their time.
I've been seeing this new guy for about 5 weeks. We hit it off quickly and I think he's overall a good guy. BUT the typical issue here is that the communication has dipped a little. Not a lot. We still talk daily, but I feel the slight shift. We also work very opposite schedules so it's a little harder to see eschother often. I'd like to see him more than once a week or talk on the phone more or something, I don't know. But I can't determine if that's asking too much just yet.
I'm just almost ALWAYS the one that's way more invested and tries harder and I'm actively working to not put a lot more effort than he is. But i don't want to seem uninterested? I really could use some advice. I hate being an inconvenience but want to be important to someone you know?
SO I'm 26 and don't have the most dating success. I was in a very traumatic 6 year relationship, then have probably only been in 3 other *actual* relationships. None super long term.
I don't have issues getting dates, but keep a relationship is hard. I want to know when is the appropriate time frame when you're seeing someone to ask for some more of their time.
I've been seeing this new guy for about 5 weeks. We hit it off quickly and I think he's overall a good guy. BUT the typical issue here is that the communication has dipped a little. Not a lot. We still talk daily, but I feel the slight shift. We also work very opposite schedules so it's a little harder to see eschother often. I'd like to see him more than once a week or talk on the phone more or something, I don't know. But I can't determine if that's asking too much just yet.
I'm just almost ALWAYS the one that's way more invested and tries harder and I'm actively working to not put a lot more effort than he is. But i don't want to seem uninterested? I really could use some advice. I hate being an inconvenience but want to be important to someone you know?
